is it ok for me to be with a 19 year old and im 15?

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Problem 1. He is a legal adult.....you are NOT
Problem 2. What kind of 19 year-old can only find something compatable with a 15 year-old?

You are still young and have your entire life ahead of you. Take your time and you will find someone your age to relate to. When you say "be" I hope you don't mean sexually. That is in no way acceptable for you or him.

Keep your parents in mind as you think about this and consider how you would feel if it was your daughter at 15, asking this question.

Take care and be safe.

Other Answers:
If you both want to be with each other, I don't see why not. Go for it!

Im a little worried about the section you've put your question under - Trying to Concieve?? If thats what is really on your mind, then its not ok for you to be with any __ year old guy, leave alone 19! You're too young for that kinda stuff, yet.
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My opinion.

Legally, there is no law against it, its only when and if it ever gets sexual. In many states that would mean statutory rape. Besides that, have fun, enjoy life in all that it gives you.

yeah go for it if you like him and he likes you then i dont see whats worng who cares if u to young if you both want to be with eachother then there is nothing wrong with it.

Several thoughts:
a) While four years is not a great deal of difference when you are 30, it is when you are 15. Assuming you currently have a good relationship with your parents, it is worth having a discussion. If you are not, please talk to someone else -- such as a counselor or planned parenthood.

The fact that you are asking here suggests that you have some doubts.

b) There are legal issues in many states -- your relationship may expose your boyfriend to criminal prosecution. This varies state to state. For example, http://apps.leg.wa.gov/RCW/default.aspx?cite=9A.44.079

c) Getting pregnant at 15 is a very bad idea. As much as you think you are ready, you almost certainly are not.

A few other resources: http://www.k12.wa.us/TeenAware/resources.aspx
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/pp2/portal/

yea its ok i mean its only 4 years diference my dad is 37 and my step mom is 25 and my great grand parents were 20 years apart now thats a realy big diference and they had a great relationship so as long as u both love each other age shouldnt matter.

I think it's too big of an age gap for the ages that you are. The age difference will mean a lot less and will be legal if you wait until you're 18.

no way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

you are way to young, i agree with the pervious, previous post and the fact that it is even a thought in your mind, you are thinking that it is not right or you wouldnt even question it, so there is your answer

I dont think it is a good idea!
Since heys older he might hurt u more because u have a disadvantage!
I dont want to tell u wat to do but
FOLLOW UR HEART!!!!!
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my heart

ya just dont let any adults know beacuse he can be put in jail

no dear it is not Ok.
you are young and I think father of 5 is right

You must recognize that at such a young age, the interpretation of love can be misconstrude. The feeling of love, if it is void in the home sometimes predicates the feeling of the need for love.
If I may, you only have one chance to be a child. Yes. A child. At this point it is more important that you make life long friendships.

Yes why not.

Listen to the ones telling you that you have your whole life ahead of you. You are too young to know exactly what you want in life. You are asking because you have doubts. Those doubts stem from the fact that you yourself have issues with it, and you know it's not right. If you really LOVE him, and he LOVES you (I'm not talking lust - there's a BIG difference), and it is really meant to be, he will be willing to wait for you. Until then, just be friends. You have to be friends for any relationship to work anyway, it can't be purely physical. Take it from me, I thought I was in love at 15, too. WAIT! There is no rush to your life... or to his. If he loves you, he'll be just as willing to wait. You are loved by so many people, you don't need to be involved (especially in a physical relationship) right now if love is what you're seeking. "Dating" is overrated and exploited in society. Dating does not mean sex, and you are still "cool" and amazing and beautiful without a "significant other." Wait.... whether you're involved sexually or not. Doesn't matter. Wait.
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The older sister of a 15 year old! (ME)

He's too old for you.

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