41yrs old, recently got married, tried to have sex with my wife twice, failed to penetrate.?

Can not penetrate from the back, very big thighs Still tight when she spreads her legs, and belly bulges out. I have an average sized willy, I have heard of smaller. I really love this lady, but now she is in a hurry to have a child as she is getting over the hill. She is 39yrs old. Does any one know what position i could use to penetrate her. Luck of this is causing a lot of bad feelings in her thinking that she is fat and ugly, which I do not subscribe to. This might destroy my relationship with her as she really wants to have sex with me and wants to concieve too. Willing to provide more info in case I have left out something. Need help please

Answers:
Contact a Dr. who can help you both.

Other Answers:
Ok the best thing to do is make sure you AND her are well lubed up. Use KY Warming liquid....that stuff is really nice or just plain KY. You can do it very nicely when applying it to her, making her more wet her self. Also rub some on yourself before you go in. I promise it will slide right in, fat legs or not. It just sounds like a lubricant problem. Should be fine. The same thing happens to us, but I'm not heavy at all.....if there isn't any moisture on the skin on the outside of the vagine it just won't go in, no matter how hard you try. I just make sure it's all over before we start so no "pushing" in issues, lol.

I agree with the girl above about the lubrication, but if your trying to conceive then be careful about which lubricant you use because they can kill the sperm. The safest I have seen is preseed, so if your serious about it, then go to http://www.preseed.com

try having sex wth her on top

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41yrs old, recently got married, tried to have sex with my wife twice, failed to penetrate.?

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