Pls not jock....?

My wife and I are tying to have a baby for over 7 months now, the problem is that my wife had a bad experence ( kind of rape ) and cannot open his legs... and we have a hrad time to get in a position that works for baby making.
any idea???? Please

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This is actually more common than you think. It is both a physical and psychological condition than is often grouped under the general category of Vaginismus.

Below are some links that discuss this.

Just understand that it takes relaxation, patience, and a lot of foreplay for people with this to be at ease enough for intercourse sometimes.

Hope this helps

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ok 4 1 that is sick get a book it might tell u?? grosse?

Go to counsling. Perhaps even seperate counsling so your wife gets help. Otherwise there is invitrofertilization. actually there is no certain way to position to make a baby. any type of penetration works whether it be her on top, you on top, spoon...etc. we tried for 6 yrs. to have our 2nd baby, which we were never supposed to have any at all, and now we have 2 beautiful kids. don't dispair. if you still can't get pregnant talk to your dr. there may be an underlying cause that is preventing a conception. they have wonderful drugs on the market that her doc. can prescribe for her that helps infertility. (we took one) I even had to have surgery, and it still didnt help. after i gave up and quit dwelling on it, it happened. The drs. said sometimes, you just try too hard. here are a few links to maybe help you.
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http://www.gettingpregnant.co.uk/
http://www.clearplan.com/gettingpregnant.cfm
http://www.babycenter.com/preconception/gettingpregnant/index

You might wana try therapy things like this aren't easy to deel with and you do get people wo would be able to help you with this problem.!

See This link it might help.!
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http://incestabuse.about.com/cs/healing/f/needtherapy.htm

She was traumatized and needs to work through her pain and fear. Try different positions and be slow and gentle with her and stop worrying about getting pregnant, learn to enjoy your coupling first, then concern yourselves with having a family. Try on her side with you behind her which will belay her fears of men, or at least should since you won't be face to face. You could go to the docter and have him insert your semen in her eggs.
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I don't know I picked it up somewhere.

Have you tried talking to a doctor about it?

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