23 and I want it...?
Answers: Simple. Tell him you want to have a newborn now.
However, it's pretty evident he isn't primed for one. Since a child succeeds best in life beside two loving parents who want it, why risk it if he isn't ready?
Discuss it with him and want on a good time for both of you. Hopefully after your married.
first, be really sure you know what you're getting into. then update yr boyfriend you're ready for children and family and ask if he feel the same way. if he is unawares, then you need to keep on. do not try to trick him into it. that's one of the worst things you could do to him and any baby. If the conditions are not right, pls just lurk. A few more years won't kill you. Talk to your DF about what you want and see if he is on equal life path as you are. Please do not catch discouraged if he tells you that he is not ready right in a minute. Ask him when he sees having a child in his future and see if the two of you can come to a compromise.
Good Luck and Best Wishe!
You should definately own a talk with him to generate sure he feels the same. The certainty that he puts on condoms means he probably isn't quite in place enough at the moment, but have that speak in any case so you both know where on earth you stand. talk to him about it he may or not be equipped to have kids but u can allways try good luck nouns is a wonderful thing ive been a mother since i be 20
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