Am I going mad??


I have been trying to get pregnant for 2 years and still no luck, all I ever think about is being pregnant and having children even while im working it is all I can think about and then when I come home I look up on websites about conceiving!! Am I going completely mad or are there other people that feel the same?

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You are not going mad, you are just passionate about something inside you that you want to give to another human being. Concentrate on loving your man, the rest will come naturally. Bless you.

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why dont you just have one then?
Its because you haven't been with me...yet. I'll get you pregger's!
i'm very sorry for that and i hope u 2 get pregnant soon....
It's not wrong to desire children.
i suggest marriage first though, if your not.
It's best for the kid.
I'TS NICE TRYING !!!
you could be to up tight to get pregnant, chill out and calm down, leave it for a few nights and then go for it.
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Hang in there. It took me four years to get pregnant because of my husband.

I have girlfriends who it took anywhere from 10 - 18 years to get pregnant.

This was before drugs could help.
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Good luck.
I went through the same thing trying to conceive my 2nd child. I'd go to the mall, and it seemed like every other woman who walked by was pragnant. I finally went to my OB/GYN and he prescribed Clomid and I was pregnant 2 mos later...however, my best friend took Clomid and had twins!
You're not crazy or obsessed. Your biological clock is probably ticking. Don't stress yourself out over it. Have you tried laying on your back and lifting your legs up into the air after your partner has ejaculated in you? My college professor for my human sexuality class said that's one of the only wive's tales that actually works. It has to do with the shape your vagina takes after lovemaking. Happy trying!
Go see your dr! Have you/your partner been tested for infertility?
Whenever there is something a person wants, but can't have, it's easy to let that thing occupy your mind 24/7. You're not going mad.
Yes. Try to relax honey and as soon as you can I mean really relax it will happen. Kids needs looking after 24 hours so please bear that in mind too.
Na, u'r not goin mad, just go to a doctor and c if u or your spouse r both able to have children.
You're not going mad. There are many women out there that feel the same way as you. It is a very frustrating feeling to not be able to get pregnant when you are trying. Have you seen a fertility specialist yet? Many insurance plans now cover the cost. Best of luck to you.
If your a saved believer,
Pray about it.
Trust me you are not alone. There are many women out there who feel the same way including me. Have you tried joining message boards where you can talk to other women who are going thriugh the same thing? They can commiserate with them and they can offer advice on conception.
I'm sorry you are having so much trouble. Have you thought about adoption? there are SO many children in the world who desperately need homes. Just a thought.

Best of Luck.
Have you seen a fertility doctor? There could be something wrong, and there could very well be a way to fix it! I'm sorry you are so frusterated, and I sure hope something works out soon. I know there are plenty of people in your same boat and you are not mad, but stress can have harmful effects on fertility, so try to keep it cool and find ways to de-stress. Good luck.
Well, I think if stop thinking about having children so much, you may end up getting pregnant. It does cause stress to think and worry about getting pregnant. As soon as my husband and I stopped trying, we got pregnant. In fact, I know a few couples who said as soon as they stopped trying they got pregnant. If you haven't already, ask your gynecologist for prenatal vitamins, stop stressing, get plenty of exercise and enjoy time with your partner not trying to have a baby. I am sure it will come together at the right time.
no your not I felt that way but made whoever your with is not the right person i tried to get pregnant every since i was 16 and just a year ago I got my baby boy (Justin) but is father is no good
have you ever been to the doctor to see why you are having trouble conceiving? maybe that would be a huge step in getting the process started. good luck in conceiving!
Well i am going to tell you the same thing probably everyone tells you GO TO THE DOCTOR!! The sooner you go the faster you be able to concieve. You probably have a hormone inbalance or PCOS. Are you having sex at the right time of the month. You ovulate 12-14 days after the first day of you period. Try to have sex every other day (sperm live up to 48 hours after they are out!) Good luck, best wishes
Go to the doctor tell him your problem and see if he can tell you what is wrong.
No u r not going mad ! its quite natural to think all the time of what we like to have until we get it.i always used to think only of cars until i possessed one on my own. but 2 years is quite a long time trying ..i think u both must consult a proper gyneac or obs practitioner and take his guidance. good luck!
There are thousands of childre looking for a new mummy I think it would be wonderful if you helped one of them.Good luck
I do the same thing. It gets me so angry when all these teenagers are having unwanted children with no means to support them, and my husband and i are having so much trouble conceiving. The bad part with me is my husband doesn't understand that with out help i wont have child i have PCOS. I talked him into me getting on clomid to help conceive so i hope it works. I read all the web sites i ordered the natural fertilaids and etc... I just cant wait wait anymore grrrrrrrr lol
i understand how you feel. all i can think about at the moment is having a baby and it doesn't help that everyone else seams to be pregnant. i am on my 6th and final cycle of clomid and hope that this month i will finally get pregnant, i really don't want to consider the options (ie assisted conception, adoption etc) yet. good luck, i hope it happens for you soon. stay positive.
No i go throught the same thing being told by doctors theres nothing wrong i wish they would tell me somethings wrong so i could fix it all i can say is keep trying
Two years is not such a long time.

No you are not going crazy but admit to think about conceiving/birthing 'all the time'. That in itself is a big NO! While you only seem to concentrate on your wishes to become pregnant, you provoke a stress reaction that can well deny you the joys of pregnancy because you produce too much adrenaline (As a result of your thoughts).

I can only suggest to you what any other professionals would ... Have a life! Do not live by tests, best periods to have sex, instead relax! Make time for yourself as a person, your husband/partner who must also feel under great pressure as well.

Do things together, go for walks, enjoy romantic meals, make your life together your focus. Of course you'll want to keep up with your ovulation kits, have sex at the best time but make it feel different. Relax and tell your husband/partner to relax as well. If you both learn to put conception back where it should be, somehting you both want but not the alpha and omega of your life as a couple, then you'll find you might be more successful.

Many couples give up on their efforts to try and conceive, believing it will never happen. once they do !!! They usually make babies, simply because they are relax!

Best wishes

Ros
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I am not mad but i can relate. Four 4 yrs now we have been trying for #2 with no luck. I pray daily and read the word . I too look up websites about preconception. It will happen for both of us when God says he is ready for us to be mothers. So until then pray and seek the Lord and put him 1st.

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