22 years out-of-date and want to take pregnant?
Answers: I am 23 years infirm and my partner is 22 and we are trying to conceive. We have however both finished uni and bought a house a year ago. i would say if you perceive it is the right time then go for it. I don't conjecture you'll ever think there is a impeccable time as far as money and lifestyle is concerned but make some preparations before paw. For example, my bf and i decided a year ago that we would start trying in June 08 so changed our diets, put some money away etc etc.
The one tip i would bequeath you from my experience is give yourself a year or more to get pregnant. I be so concerned with making preparations that when it came to start trying i expected and desperately considered necessary it to happen straight away as i had be emotonally ready for this a year ago. When it didnt happen i become quite upset. You need to steal a relaxed view on it, making some vague preparations e.g finish conservatory first and then start tryin. My view is that you should try sooner to some extent than later (ie in your 20s) as if at hand are problems you have time on your side. Just my opinion though.
It's newly hormones. These feelings come and go, regularly depending on the time of the month. Check and see if you are ovulating. Your common sense is telling you to hang about until you have finished school, hold career training and you are married. Focus on your career right immediately so that you can afford to care for a little one. Parenting is easier when you own an education and a career to put money on you up with the continuous expenses of that little bundle of joy. Best wishes, G You are still really immature and I think you should finish school, build up your job until you are in a more secure financial position. You enjoy plenty of time to have children and I would enjoy your boyfriend and your 20's.
I am 28 years and am so glad I didnt enjoy a child young. I met my partner when we were still at college and although i went through times of wanting a child, I am so glad we waited as it purely feels right now and we own so much more to offer a child now.
I would definately linger a few more years and just have fun!
Em*
to be honest, i come up with age really has nothing to do near it. its about how mature you are, and how far are you prepared to go to take thought and love your baby. remember once you have yoru kid, all focus is on the baby.. do you want to be a mother or still shindig out a lot.
anyways, im turning 20 and me and my boyfriend are planning to get pregnant for our 3 years anni surrounded by August.
so good luck
I'm 21 and my twins are 3 1/2 months old .I be with my boyfriend for 3 years when we decided to try for a babe-in-arms. As long as you are prepared for parenthood - no more coming and going as you please, no partying and are ready to pinch responsibility for another life...although nothing prepares you for maternity. Good luck!! If you BOTH are emotionally and finacially ready then progress for it. I was 20 when i had my 1'st tot. She was a surprise though!
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