Is this weird?

my husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for over a year. but not happening for some reason. everytime we make love, the sperm come right back out of me?? I don't know why.. He is "big"down there, but it still comes out. So he thought it would be a good idea to use the ovulation sticks to make sure i am ovulating, then have sex but right before he goes, he goes in a cup and get a syringe and put it all the way in me like that. (he means like a reall really long one..?? This lady I know that is a lesbian had her guy friend do that for her and her lesbian girlfriend?? Do you think that is werid?? Do you think it will work???

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I don't think that will work. I see some sterilization problems, insertion problems, and location problems relating to your insides. I think it is pretty much impossible for you guys to get it right, plus be extemely lucky for it to happen that way. I can tell you this...

The first time for my wife and myself took over 15 months. We know some other couples that it took nearly 2 years. I believe for most people actually trying to get pregnant, it takes some time. Now the high school girl with legs up in air in the back of a 78 Trans AM will get pregnant the first time; but those of us trying on purpose just cannot get it done. Be patient and have lots of sex. Whats wrong with that? Try not to worry. Let it go. Worry might complicate the process.

Now there are other unthinkable reasons. Have you both been tested for fertility? Hopefully that wouldn't be it, but one of you could be unable. Just a thought there...

Just keep going at it...all the time! Keep going with your life. Plan a big vacation and see what happens. The day I was going to book an Alaskan cruise for us, my wife told me she was pregnant. Good thing I planned that trip and had to cancel it. Good Luck

LOL I have some lesbian friends how joke about using a turkey baster! I don't know if it works or not. After you have sex why don't you elevate for like 30 minutes to keep it from coming right out?

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