i miscarried my 1st baby 3 days ago.when will i get my fertility back coz i want 2 try get another baby soon?
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When i had my miscarriage the doctor told me to wait 2 months before trying again.
I am sorry for your loss I know what you are going through and i hope you get pregnant again.
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and it will calculate when you will be fertile and ovulating.
When to try again after a miscarriage
When is it safe to try again? This is one of the most common questions couples face after a miscarriage. While some not ready to think about trying again for a long while, others find comfort in continuing to try to conceive again without delay -- especially those couples who were already trying to get pregnant. Either reaction is perfectly normal.
If you are one of those who are anxious to try again right away, it can be difficult to get a straight answer on when it's safe to keep trying. Ask three different doctors and you'll likely get three different answers...likely the following:
Three to six months
This is the most common response. Being the traditional, by-the-book answer, some doctors will often give this advice for all patients following a miscarriage without adjusting it to suit individual circumstances. In some cases, it may make sense to wait for a few months after a loss. If the pregnancy was further along, it could be that your body does need some time to replenish lost nutrients. If you had a D&C, your doctor may feel it's best to wait in order to be sure your uterine lining properly replenishes itself.
However, in cases such as a very early "chemical" pregnancy or a loss at 5-6 weeks, it is hard to make a case that the body truly needs three months to recover when in many of these cases, a woman might not even know she had miscarried if she was not actively trying for a baby at that point.
After your first normal period
Some doctors feel it is safe to try again without a long waiting period after a loss, but they recommend waiting one cycle for the first normal menstrual period. The reasoning behind this is that they have an easier time dating a pregnancy with a last menstrual period as a reference. Since ovulation may not occur on a normal schedule after bleeding from a miscarriage, they feel waiting for a normal period will help date a pregnancy should it occur right away.
Right away...if you feel ready
Some doctors believe that, for most women, there is no medical reason to wait at all. According to this school of thought, once the bleeding ceases, it's fine to continue trying. These doctors do not worry overly about the problem of dating the pregnancy since ultrasound can be used if the dates are uncertain.
How to know what to do
Obviously, it is best to have your doctor's stamp of approval on your plans to try again, since you will need to seek prenatal care when you do get pregnant again. If your doctor recommends a long wait and you prefer not to wait, ask for a thorough explanation on why he or she is recommending that course of action. Find out if there are specific reasons in your medical situation why your doctor feels it is best to wait. If there are no specific reasons, ask if your doctor feels there is any major risk to trying again right away. Often, the answer may be no.
Be sure to give yourself the time you need to grieve, however. Do not discount your feelings of loss, and be sure to examine whether you really do need some time before jumping back into the ups and downs of trying to conceive. No matter what any doctor says about your physical readiness, only you and your partner truly know how long you need before you are emotionally ready
good luck
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been there you have to wait at least 3 months then try im sorry for what has happened its not nice
See your doctor. It´s the best way to know it. I'm so sorry this happened to you. Happened to me 2 years ago, and was very devastating.
Check with your doctor. They usually tell you to wait a few months to let your system get back to normal, but it's very individual.
I have a Mc Last August of 05, and had a D&C done. It has now been 8 months and we're still not pregnant. The doctor said we could start getting pregnant after I had 2 normal periods. But 3 days after a MC, I dont dont your quite ready. You need time to recover trust me..My husband and I are just now getting fully recovered from it. It was a horrible nightmare for us. Are you sure you was ready for the baby you had a Mc with?? Your wording didnt show much emotion and Im worried you dont want a baby for the right reason.
Hope everything works out,
Shannon and Jason
if u had DNC then u should wait for 6 month. if u M/C with out DNC then after 2 month u can try again.i had M/c on 3 may 2006 Dr advised me try after 2 month You should try to wait at least until after your first period and give your uterus time to build up a lining so the egg can implant
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