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ok here is my question to, i have been trying to get pregnant for the longest while now (about 1 1/2 years) and nothing as happen, i get irregular period too. could i be infertile and doesn't know it, at some time of the month my breast gets extremely tender and i feel like i am pregnant sometimes cause my period comes extremely late, could u guys advice me please. how will i ever know when i am ovulating if my period is irregular?

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well first i think you should go to your doctor and tell them you have been trying for a year and he/she will check to see if there are any problems, you can chart your temperature and cm every day and then you will see a pattern, it is possible that you have blocked tubes and so you will want to have a hystersalpinogram where they inject a dye in to your uterus to see if your tubes are blocked....the other option is buying ovulation predictor kit but they can get very expensive if you have to use them every day

good luck and dont give up eventually you will have an angel to call your own :0)

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Go to a doctor and tell him what you just posted here. He will be able to help you. Good luck!

Just do it all the time .... Were you on birth control for a year or two? becuse the average person who was takes it is about 10 months to two years before they get pregnant.

You need to go to a doctor that specializes in that. They can help - or to get stuff done for free. Find out where you can be an egg donor - they do the whole work-up for free thinking you will donate eggs and if there is something wrong they will let you know for free.

Make an appointment with your gynecologist and talk to him/her. And I beg to differ on the birth control pill issue. It doesn't take no 10 months to get pregnant after taking the pill. I've taken the pill and have been pregnant within 3 months of having stopped the pill.

Maybe you're trying rush yourself, Candy. Progress can't be rushed. You could go to a doctor, and ask your question. It could be a number of things but you should go see a doctor right away. It might not be you it could be your guy. Good Luck and God Bless.

Maybe you are stressing too much and need to relax.If you need to go to the docotor for other things,wait until it comes to that.

at some stores they have this thing that tells you when you are ovulateing try to get that and it should tell you when you are ovulateing and than have sex.That should work if not go to the dr.

Maybe 1st try one of those ovulation predictors that you can buy over the counter so you will know when you are the most fertile. If that doesn't work, you and your partner should get checked out by a Dr. to see if there is a problem......it may be HIM! Only a doctor can give U factual answers to those questions. Sorry

You should check into Life planning, i think that's what its called. They can help out a lot. Try looking on the Internet also and call your doctor.

I would advise you to see your doctor first, to see if you have an existing condition that is making your periods irregular. She can refer you to a fertility specialist if necessary. As far as ovulation, you can buy over the counter ovulation tests to see when you are ovulating, or talk to your physician for other methods.

I had the same problem, try to keep track of your periods, even though they are irregular, mine always came between 35-40 days, by that you can calculate when you may be ovulating and try around that time. I finally gave up trying and then I got pregnant!! If you still have no luck try going to the doctor and get tested. it seems to me like your best bet is a doctor maybe you need some extra help..good luck .. i will alo add it took me 5 years of trying before i got pregnant

Try a ovulation predictor kit from a drugstore if you haven't already.

If you have, I think it's time to see a doctor. Most doctors will be ready to do some tests if you have been trying for a year or so. You may just need a prescription to help you ovulate. My friend did, and she got pregnant quickly. Just make sure you ask about multiple births... I know my friend's doctor told her the prescription she took did NOT increase the chances of multiple births. Don't forget that it could also be your husband that needs help.

If your cycle is irregular, then it is difficult to find the time of ovulation etc. Over anxiousness also induces false symptoms of pregnancy. There are medicines available for inducing ovulation. Clomid is one of them. This is the first step a doctor is gogin to take in your case. So you can try it if you feel ok. 50 mg tablet, 5 days after your period for 5 days, IF it doesnot work repeat the course in next period.
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Personal Experience Do yourself a favor....buy the book "Taking Charge of Your Fertility" by Toni Weschler before you spend lots and lots of $$$$ on reproductive doctors. This book will help you understand your cycle and explain correctable problems on your own. If you can narrow down what's going on in your body, you can report that to the doctor and they can tell you immediately what to do.

If you are getting your period late, and you feel pregnant before that, you may have a shortened luteal phase (time from ovulation until menses). This can be fixed by a simple prescription of progesterone.

I loved this book and it seriously was a life saver for my husband and I .

First off you might want to see an Reproductive Speciaist to help you. Start charting and keeping track of your cycles and temperature. Mymonthlycylces.com is a good site to help you with that and it's free.
Hope that helps.
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Years of research. well there are ovualtion kits you can try im doing them now and they are great !!! you buy them at the drug store or any shop that sells pregnancy stuff... you buy an ovulation kit for 5 days it comes with 5 peeing cups and 5 tests you do one test a day for 5 days at the same time every day.... it sort of looks like a pregnancy test but for ovualtion.... it comes up positive when you are at your highest and that means you are going to ovulate in 24 - 36 hours so you have sex on the day you get a positive and the day after....its worked for alot of women thats just an easier thing to try so that when you know you are most fertile you can plan a romantic evening and just enjoy the night instead of worrying the WHOLE month about making sure that you and your husband had sex on certain days so goodluck and for the future CONGRATS

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