35, grandmother, and trying for another one of my own.?

I have a 20 year old daughter and I have never taken any kind of birth control or preventive methods and can not get pregnant again. I have severe menstrual cycles...cramping and such.... When I ovulate though, I have terrible pains down my legs, Drs. say I have ovarian cysts but only during ovulation. I am normal in every other way according to my physician and should be pregnant several times over by now but no results. I know it isn't my current husband because he has three other children and the other men I have had relationships with also have children...Does anyone have any advice on what I might try????? I have tried unbelievable positions.. standing on my head ...laying still for 5 minutes or more with my butt in the air...is this good advice or just getting out of control with desperation??? Trust me, you aren't the only one laughing!!

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first thing first find out when you are ovulatingl there are ovualtion kits you can try im doing them now and they are great !!! you buy them at the drug store or any shop that sells pregnancy stuff... you buy an ovulation kit for 5 days it comes with 5 peeing cups and 5 tests you do one test a day for 5 days at the same time every day.... it sort of looks like a pregnancy test but for ovualtion.... it comes up positive when you are at your highest and that means you are going to ovulate in 24 - 36 hours so you have sex on the day you get a positive and the day after....its worked for alot of women thats just an easier thing to try so that when you know you are most fertile you can plan a romantic evening and just enjoy the night instead of worrying the WHOLE month about making sure that you and your husband had sex on certain days so goodluck and for the future CONGRATS

Other Answers:
try adoption

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Tell your story to a new ob/gyn. There are medications that can help with the cysts. Keep trying new doctors until you find one that will listen!

Best of luck!

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I dont laughing at all, maybe it's better u join in a yoga class. its better than do it by your self. it can calm your mind n body thats needed to produce best ovum. it repair our organs works. i think its good 4 u. the best advice is don't u never forgot God. who create this world. u ask Thee has the best answer. Good luck. do you or your husband smoke cig or majuriana??? drink??? drugs?? all these are factors to reduce sperm count and make it really low cut out drugs drinking and majuriana if u are... smoking down to 5 a day for a couple months also try a position with pillows under your butt very uncomfortable at least 2 to 3 feet in air and stay there after orgasam by u and him for an hour not 5 min but only after u have cut down on the other things if they are in the pic..............

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the population of the world is high enuf i think

go to the doctors and keep trying

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There is no evidence that elevating your butt after sex helps, but it can't hurt. Standing on your head is a bit more than would be necessary, though...

The fact that you have children and that your husband has children doesn't mean that either of you are fertile. You obviously both *were* fertile, but that doesn't mean you still are. Or you could each be fertile separately, but not together; this accounts for about a third of infertility, so it is pretty common!

I would strongly suggest you read _Taking Charge of Your Fertility_ by Toni Weschler. It has lots of *factual* information instead of all the old wive's tales...

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