My boyfriend is talking about having a baby with me..?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year or more, and we are talking about marriage. For the past few weeks he said he wants to have a child soon as we can, and that we should start trying. He also keeps telling me his destiny is to be a good father. He's a good guy, so it’s no doubt he wouldn’t be. I’m not ready, and I have tired to tell him this, but he tells me I'm just scared that we will fail as parents. I don’t have my B.A. yet. He supports me. I don’t know how to get threw to him that, I’m not ready without hurting his feelings. I really do love him.

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i know what your going threw i had the same problem with my fiancee a while back he is 6years older then me so i could understand why he wanted to have a baby and start his own family . However i could not stop thinking about college and how i will work things out. I was open with him and i told him my feelings which it did help he assured me that i will finish college not matter what he was going to be there . And that maid me realize i had a wonderful guy who is very supportive and understanding who i would love to be the father of my children. I am still in college now however now that i am on board on having a baby we have not conceived i been trying for over a year and nothing.So i guess things happen for a reason not just because you want it. Sit your guy down talk to him one on one. The best place to talk to some one is in the car cuz they cant go anywhere will its moving . I am pretty sure if he loves you very much you will have no problem working something out .

you have to be honest to him about your feeling since he had told you what he want. Don't force yourself if you do not agreed with his 'idea'. Tell him what your thinking straight to the point. Dun waste each others time.

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