!!!5 ABORTIONS!!! Can I still get pregnant?
1 & 2- My parents decision since I was underaged
3 & 4- mistakes due to pill strength not being appropriate for my height/weight
5th- completely my decision, the only one I truly regret & feel bad for since my then 1 week bf became my husband of 3 yrs.
Now, I never admitted to hubby that I had all those abortions nor did I admit to having ours (5th) aborted. He thinks I miscarried.
He wants a baby now. What are my chances I can still get pregnant? We've been kind of trying for the past 2 months, should I worry yet?
I completely leave it in God's hands but just wanting to get some opinions.
Bash if you must, just give some intelligent feedback at the same time. Thanks!
Answers:
Talk to your husband about your history. To be parents together is not easy, starting with a healthy foundation will hurt and then it will free you. You are getting this family started together and if you have problems then you will need to deal with these together. IF you cannot come clean completely, skip #5 but let him know that you have had abortions when you were very young...
YOU MUST be honest with your ob/gyn. There could be scarring in your uterus or fallopian tubes. Give it 6 months before you start to worry though.
Good Luck.
Please do not let the people who choose to condemn you have an impact. They are judgmental and negative. There are always circumstances and since you are being honest here you should be accepted and not chastised.
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Doesn't sound like you had any trouble getting pregnant in past, so I'd say your chances are pretty good.
You're right. Leave it in God's hands. It is possible. Good luck! I would ask your doctor. If there were no complications then you probably could. But please make sure you are ready to have a baby before you get pregnant. It grieves me to hear of the ones who are no longer here. :(
oh wow thats alot on your body. you parents are bad for making you have abortions. i dont think that is really allowed to make your mind up for you. but anyways i know its possable BUT you will be at very high risk to misscarry. i know that much for sure. you bodies been through alot. good luck to you!
wow 5. you could have had 5 children. goodluck. i will pray for you if God's condemnation is on you. that's 5 children you could have had. i'll just pray for you ok.yes of course you can but omg you were underaged and had kids thats very bad i hope ou feel bad and there was once a family with 22 kids from 1 mom so dont worry i hope you older this time so ok adopt a child and get those tubes tied.
Totally possible. It depends on how much scarring was caused by the abortions but considering your fertility in the past I think you'll be ok. It can take years to get pregnant so don't worry after just a few months.
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If all abortions was without problems then you can. That is some like you due sixth kid. God luck. Sometimes when you are stressed out while you are trying to get pregnant, you have a harder time. My husband and I were trying so hard to get pregnant with my daughter that we stressed ourselves out about it. As soon as we both accepted that it will happens when it happens, I got pregnant. I think that the fact that you are keeping these secrets is stressing you out and affecting your fertility. Of course, I do not know from a medical standpoint whether all of the abortions that you had would affect your fertility. You need to talk to a doctor about that. It may help you to get everything out in the open and then try when you are relaxed and guilt free of secrets. It will be something very difficult for you to do, I am sure...but have faith in your husband and help him to understand it all. It is truly in God's hands. Good luck!
I hope your married to a good man.
You should have been honest with your husband.
It was wrong of you to lie to him and make that decision on your own to abort.
Also are you sure you want to have a kid now????????
Abortion should not be used as birth control, Im not condeming you but your moral sleepin around behavior is not that of a responsible adult.
Im sure you can get prego but that doesnt always meen you should have kids.
Think about it AND DISCUSS IT WITH YOUR HUSBAND>
Reread what you write...just because HE wants to have a kid does not mean you should.
Generally Moms take care of kids way more than Dads.
Consider who will be working and who will be home taking care of the kid.Its a Full time job raising kids!!!!!
No need to bash you...you made a decision...Stop having abortion because you are tearing holes in your cervix I have had abortions and it took me awhile to conceve but you be able to have a little one. Try after your period goes off like the next day your ovulating after...trust me it works. It depends on how old are u now. Also bring your husband to check for sperm count. Have u tried ovulation calendar?
One I understand about being underaged and getting pregnant but to lie to your mate about a child that's cruel. God will bless you with a child if he feels it's fit. Maybe you should be asking for forgiveness for all those baby's not just the last.
After 5 abortions what kind of a mother would you be anyhow?You better see a gynecologist. Although you got pregnant in the past, the last one might have damaged something. You may run the risk of a tubal pregnancy, so be sure to get very close supervision from a doctor from day 1.
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