My bf and I have been trying 2 conceive 4 the better part of a year now, but all I have had is close calls.?


On a more personal note, when I touch his testes, they feel a little cool 2 me. He has also had a couple of unfortunate blows to that area. Could that mean that he is infertile? He wants to seek medical attention just 2 make sure, but I think he is afraid. What can I do 2 help him...I Love Him

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Marriage is no longer a commitment in stone. So to everyone who says that, your marriage will probably end in divorce. Shut your mouth! Anyone who gets married just to have a baby is a retard, and if you get married just for a baby, you just contibute to the divorce rate, so thank you!

But that's not what you asked about, so I apologize. It is understandable that he is nervous about going to the doctor. No one likes to hear bad news. It may not even be that he is infertile. It is a lot of stress trying to conceive and this all plays into actually conceiving. Try to make the actual conception fun again. Try it for a couple more months. Most doctors will not say there is an actual problem until you have tried for a year. Testes feeling cool shouldn't have anything to do with it. And also, just so you know, my boyfriend's best friend took a hit to the groin a few years ago that swelled them up to the size of grapefruits (literally, I am not kidding, we had to call the paramedics, it was AWFUL!!) and his daughter just celebrated her first birthday! So good luck and keep trying.
Dont you think you need to get married before you have any kids? I do!! Then you have a commitment in stone and he cant bail, neither can you. Yes, go to the dr if you think you need to.

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