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me and my friend and her daughter have been sharing a home for over two years now. it is a home owned by my father and aunt. they said that we all need to be out by october because the roof will not hold for another winter. we have the oppertunity to have two different places to live but she refuses to leave me. she says she cannot survive without me. i am 23 years old and she is 42 she survived before me why not now. how do i tell her i want her to give me my own space? i want to get married and have a family.

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Dependent relationship are NOT good. Picture trying to save a drowning man as he is panicking. He grabs you out of fear of losing his life and starts choking you....harder and harder...The air is cut off from your lungs as he squeezes tighter around your neck. The blood is cut off from your brain. You fight him off...the more you fight the tighter he squeezes. Your head sinks below the water and everything turns black...YOU BOTH DIE!

That's the type of relationship based on dependency. Relationships should be based on choices or cooperation. NOT NEED!

tell her this. but also be very gentle and understanding. she obviously is not very stable.

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