My wife had an abortion and didn't even tell me.?
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That sucks. Come make babies with me!
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I suggest that you and your wife go to counseling. Obviously there is a bigger issue here than her secert abortion. Best of luck.
that's sad. im sorry to hear. maybe you should talk to her and see if a child is what she really wants. maybe shes scared of something or not ready. She might be scared on having a baby. Instead of being mad at her. Find out why she did it. What is she scared about. That is stange for a women to do that. Somthing is going on. But then again you 2 should be able to trust eachother.
I would go off on her....I am against abortion. That was wrong.. She knew u wanted a baby...she shouldnt have done that
WOW! drama... you two need to sit down and have a long chat on why she doesnt want kids and why you do and why she thinks that she has to lie to you. I also suggest counseling. good luck :-)omg u should call her a killer not a wife..she is so selfish and a killer she killed ur dream . i dont think she loves u. u should just go along with it because maybe shes not ready to have a kid just go easy on her because think about would you want carry a kid for 9 months
GET COUNSELING. THAT INNOCENT BABY WAS PART OF YOU AND MY HUSBAND SAID HE WOULD HAVE DIVORCED ME IN A MINUTE. HE SAID IF I DIDN'T WANT IT THAT HE DID. SHE SHOULD HAVE TRUSTED AND LOVED YOU ENOUGH TO TALK TO YOU AND TELL YOU WHAT SHE WAS PLANNING INSTEAD OF GOING BEHIND YOUR BACK. SEPERATING IS AN OPTION TOO. SHE NEEDS TO DECIDE IF THAT'S THE LIFE SHE WANTS. I COULD NEVER EVEN CONSIDER KILLING MY BABY. I HOPE IT WORKS OUT ,IF NOT YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE TRUSTING.
Wow. Not knowing other details about your relationship, I would say that you must have other issues in your relationship. This has been a major deceit and lie on her part. You need to really talk to her, it sounds as if she really does not want to have children; at least not at this time. If she doesn't want to discuss it at all, you need to find a marriage/relationship counselor for both of you, if she will go. If she is not willing to go, you really need the help for yourself. If you attend a church, at lot of times counseling is available through church, so you will be in a supportive community. Best of luck to you and God bless!Source(s):
Life and studying for my Masters degree in Psych.
First of all, you have every right to grieve the loss of the child that should have been yours but was taken from you. Please don't try to hide any of your feelings; they are a natural reaction to the pain you have been caused.
It sounds like there are many serious issues in your marriage that need to be dealt with, the most obvious one being honesty. I would immediately start looking for good marriage counseling for both of you to go to. Don't forget that she is sure to be hurting too, both from the loss she experienced (although self-inflicted, it's real all the same) and from the guilt she is sure to be feeling.
Lastly, when she is ready to admit the wrong she has committed, not just the facts of what she has done, you need to be ready to forgive her. I'm sure it will take everything in you to do so, but if you're going to get on the road to a happy marriage, forgiveness and rebuilding trust are essential. I wouldn't say that your marriage is doomed by any means, it just needs a lot of work.
thats terrible, counseling is defiantly needed for you 2, she needs to come clean about wanting children, if she doesn't want to then she lied to you when she said, I DO, SORRY SWEETY WHAT??? Is this woman really worth it to you? I hope to God your answer is no...
If your wife can kill your baby w/ out even asking then she doesn`t love you very much.She has a problem w/ haveing your baby.And she can keep a secret like killing your baby and then stay`s on bc for 33 years w/ out telling you,she doesn`t love you very much.Did you know that you can press charges against her because she did not tell you she was prego and then she killed it and did not ask you if you wanted her to....I`m so sorry your going through this.
Its betrayal... What would she have done if she was trying to get pregnant and she realized you havent been C**ing (the thing a guy has to do to get a girl pregnant)... She would have been angry, correct? Its wrong and feel lucky that you dont have a kid with a person who you cant trust.Maybe it wasn't your child.
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