i need some info on how to spice up me and my wifes sexual life.?
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first of all you must know one thing.. sex unlocks the males emotions and Romance unlocks the females emotions.. is your wife more of the whips and chains kind or the flowers and soft music kind.. you have to read in to it.. also you have to show her all day long that you are thinking of her and appreciating her.. when you get home dont' just assume that she wants you instead ask how was her day how can you make her feel better? draw a bubble bath for her. play soft music. tell her youlove her. tell her if she doesn't want to do it it's okay but be prepared because after about 3-4 times of doing this you will have one frisky mama. making your wife want you sexually is as easy as treating her the way you did when you first were married (or met) romance her.. think of ways to make her your queen it will turn her passions towards you!!
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Don't be afraid to try new things, have sex in places you think that are strange, for instance my husband grabbed me at work and gave me a new out look on the break room!
go to a spencers store if there is one around you they have fun stuff like card games and massage oil, I love to get massages from my husband and usually it will put me in the mood too. you might try some porn but, it is not for everyone, maybe start with just a guy and girl. food is fun too whipped cream especially, then there is karma sutra books. Cosmopolitan magazine that you can get at walmart always has stuff for hotter positions or you can go on cosmopolitan.com too! good luck! middle of the day sex. come home for lunch but not for food...
be adventurous, try talking
people tell me and my husband that after 10 years we still act like newly weds that is because we do not ever neglect our sex life.
plus you have to have an open and honest relationship to have a great sex life
if you are trying to spice up your sex life because you are having problems in your relationship then no matter what you try it will not help your sexual relationship will still stink Plan to check in to a nice hotel under different names, once you get there relax for a little bit then seduce him by having him lie on the bed and tie him the bed. Once he is comfortable(naked) blindfold him, after he is blindfolded take out some different textured items(feathers,silk,lotion,or anything that you can think of). Or you could give him a romantic massage starting from his toes and start one leg and go up to the groin and back down to the toes and then start on the other leg and repeat the same thing that you did to the other leg, then start on the arms and do the same thing. Then have him roll over and do his back. Another thing that you could do is to shave his nether region and then have him return the favor to you.
You could also go to an adult book store and look at the books that they sell for romantic evenings. There is a book that has 52 different activities that yo can do(ie once a week for a year).
I hope that the info that I given you will help you.
PS you might think about dressing up in a very nice dress and meet him at a hotel lounge as if you were having a one night stand even though you are married and see where this leads. mmmm while trying to concieve????????
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