My almost 5 yr old daughter cries over everything .. How can I get her to stop?

It's not a temper tantrum, it's real tears, like she is broken hearted. Over things like I gave her juice instead of milk, or I didn't hear what she said...HELP!

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First, don't be fooled. Kids can be really good at what type of crying they use. They know which ones get more attention. Chances are it is a tantrum, but at five she knows how to increase the drama and make it sound worse. One thing to try first is to tell her to use her words and leave the room untill she can calm down enough to do so. After you tell her this you must ignore her. Do not respond to her until she calms herself down and talks. The key is to give her the least amount of attention when she is crying, especially over something like the examples you gave. However, you know you child better than anyone, if you are sure that the tears are sincere and heartfelt than you can attempt to help her calm down. However do not do so by giving her what she wants. She still needs to learn how to talk and not cry. For example, if she is upset becsause you did not understand something she said, tell you are both going to sit and calm down so you can talk about the misunderstanding. Sit with her, but wait to speak untill she stops crying. Stay strong and only talk when she is not crying. If you are consistant she will get the message that people talk about problems and can solve them better without tears. I hope this helps.

talk to her, see what she like and dislikes

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My almost 5 yr old daughter cries over everything .. How can I get her to stop?

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