I have a 2 1/2 yr old and had been with her dad for 3 yrs when we seperated in feb.?

i am wondering 1. am i doing the right thing for our daughter by moving on? i have found a very nice gentleman that treats me with the utmost respect and treats me and her with total love and admiration for how i handle her delays. she has speech and developemental delays, but it doesnt seem to bother him at all. her dad has been begging for me to come back to him and "oh ill change, things will be different" "i love you i want t o marry you and be with you for the rest of my life" this new guy im dating, i really love him and care for him but i dont want to hurt my daughter in the long run. HELP!

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she is young and it will be tuff, but it will not be as devistating as you think. my oldest son was that age when we left. he and my husbad now get along great, we married when my boy was 6. he still sees his dad and they talk, but he has turned out to be a wonderful kid, he just turned 15 this month and he is very well rounded and sees now why we had to leave(abuse). just always answer any question she has. good luck and congrats, everyone deserves true love!!

you never stay in a relationship for the sake of the child. when he/she grows up and finds out that was the reason you were together for so long, she will not like it

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I have a 2 1/2 yr old and had been with her dad for 3 yrs when we seperated in feb.?

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