I have a 3 year old son who does not listen, his speech is not very clear?

I have a hard time understanding him as well as other family members. He screams at the top of his lungs when told to stop screaming he says okay then screams again even louder. He goes into the refrigrator without permission and opens containers, spilling themall over the icebox, when I calmly explain why you don't do that he takes of running or says okay and does the samething again. He likes to dress himself,which I don't mind,but he will go into the closet after he already has dressed himself and knocks down every article of clothing in the closet. I have to fight him to go to bed, he's the first one up. dosen't take naps, spanking dosen't help, explaining dosen't help. I stay at home with the children my other two sons do not have this problem at all. What 0shoul0d I do,0 at my wits end.No one will watch him in the family, church childcare has also started backing off watching him. Stating their under staffed.000000000000

Answers:
relax speaking is a learned art ...read often and repeat.... he seems to have a high energy level .... whisper to him each time you say something..makes them slow down to listen the softer the better if he 's loud whisper even softer.. try it...make bedtime something special ....and move slowly they copy actions of those around them.. good luck

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he could be deaf or partially

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