my two year old listens to no one but me?

she ignores her dad and grandparents but listens to me when i yell and give that evil eye. what can i do to make her listen to others? and when she dosent listen to them they look at me like i dont teach her right from wrong....example at home she knows to clean up her mess but when we go to grandmas she tells them no and she is "tired".i do discipline her but only when she really needs it. her grandparents will go to disipline her but i feel angry at them and want to beat them but i know my daughter does not listen to a word they say. any advice please....???
p.s. they do not hurt her she does not get beat or anything before i get some negative remarks about beating kids or something..so beat ya to it even though i know you will still put in your dumbass remarks...thanks!!!!!!! serious answers only please from parents

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Well, she believes you. She knows you are the boss because even dad and the grandparents look to you when she ignores them. Funny thing, people (relatives,even close ones) expect to be given all the honors from a two year old. Chances are you are the one taking time with her to begin with. To get her to begin to respond first just tell her (one to one) that she is getting bigger and it is time to start looking at big people when they talk to her. Just work on one thing, They need to earn her trust, usually babies don't respond to people they are unsure of. She trusts you. Remember she is two.

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I say if she is only 2 and listens to you. You are on a roll already most 2 year olds or terrible 2's as they say are so into learning and exploring that getting them to listen to anybody is a challenge. but as a single mom of also a 2 year old is find something that works for you and have everyone that watches her while you are gone try the same thing like a routine of some sort. That way she learns from that everyone is working as a team and is not going to get away with it from anyone.. My dad gives in alot so it was harder to train him at that than it was my daughter. Good luck

my son went through the same thing but he would not listen to me only my mom but he grew out of that i think it may just be a fase my sons was good luck just be patient You've got it good because my 2 year old twins listen to everyone BUT me.

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