My boyfriend won't take our two year old outside?

I have 2 older kids which are not his. The older kids go outside to play at a park behind my house & the two year old wants to follow. I am usually overwhelmed w/ housework while my b/f talks on the phone or watches tv. My 2 y.o wants to go outside & when I allow him to go with the older kids (7, 8 ),monitering him frequently my b/f watches from the window & criticizes everthing that happens wrong, then go to the door & scream at my kids and their friends about not watching the 2 y.o. My b/f then makes our two year old come in leaving me to deal with our 2 y.o crying & begging to go outside. I push my housework to the side & take our son outside.My older two are beginning to complain of their little brother b/c when they take him out my b/f is always screaming what they do wrong. My b/f and I argue all the time about this. I worry about how this effects the older two kids and my two year old who begs to me to go outside, but then dad yells no. What can I do?

Answers:
Don't worry so much about the housework. Take the little one outside.
One of the best quotes ever written," The sign of a great mother is a sticky floor and a dirty oven."
I'm not saying to never do housework, but spending alittle time outside with your child is necessary at this stage in his life.
Tell your bf to "kiss it" he sounds like he really needs to chill.

TAke another look at the BF --- is he really good Dad material.
After all, it has been at least 3 years and he is still a BF, not more?
Kids come first.....

tell him you need his help;he can take the kids to the park or do the housework i bet he will be taking the easy road and taking the kids to the park,he can help you it is his kid too right?

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