the little girl i babysit?
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try taking her mind off the fact her mom is going out play a game she likes
talk to her when her mom goes out tell her that she wont be long & will be back soon
also get her mom to pepere her for you coming round to baby sit do fun thing's with her
im a mom of 4 kids like to know where mom & dad are going & how long they are going to be she will grow out of it in time
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i am so sori but i cant help
ask the mother if its ok if u come over more often while she is there so that the girl can get to know u more often, her mother oviously has not spent very much time away from her. so all u can do is play games and hang out with her more then just when the mother is out go over and hang out with her when her mother is home stop trying to kill her in the bathtub...
No just kidding. My daughter does the same thing, how long has this been going on? Is it possible that the next time you babysit you could get there maybe 15-20 minutes early? That way the little girl can see the two of you together and understand that she's ok. That helped with mine.
Give her time and be patient, reassure her that when mommy is done working she will come home. Engage her in playing, or take her for a walk, keep her occupied as much as possible. Comfort her as needed and she will start to bond with you, and not miss mommy as much. I usually hold the child when mom is leaving, so that I can comfort her right away. Then in a soft voice, we go do our thing, usually takes about 10 minutes and they settle down. If not find her favorite toy or activity and engage her with it.
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a daycare mom have the mom introduse you tothe little girl and on ur free time try to go out with the mom and little girl like to go to the park and play or somethin i wish u good luck my daughter is still a baby so she crys alot anyways
First -- mother needs to tell her daughter "I am leaving. I will be back at 6:00. I love you." and she should be back at 6.
Have the girl watch the clock with you -- this is good because she'll get to learn how to tell time.
Meanwhile make sure you give her a ton of activities and whatnot. And when she wants to cry again say "Hey, let's look at the clock -- we're almost to the 6!"
Make a game of it.
But the mother must cut her good byes short.
My daughter's younger but so long as I TELL HER I will be back for her she doesn't raise too much of a fuss no matter WHO she stays with. At that stage there isn't a lot you can do except try to keep your cool and distract her. If you act like you're about the do the most exciting thing ever she might just forget about her mom. Come up with new games, make funny faces, pretend to cry too in a ridiculous way. It also might be a good idea to have the mom write little notes around the house with kisses or drawings on them and hide them. Then when the kiddo gets sad she can look for a note and feel like her mom is there in spirit.
This too shall pass.
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Got kids or expecting? 5 moms tell-all in Mama Drama http://blogs.chron.com/mamadrama/ mine did this when i first started to have to go back to work but my child was five so this is what i did to help the sitter out. i would have the sitter over a few nights a week for the first two weeks and have dinner together then we would play games with the kids. after two weeks of this my child liked for me to go out because he got to have fun with the sitter..... good luck and god bless
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