3rd born child jelauous of new baby girl.?

i am a mother of 4, and my 4 year old is super jealous of new baby sister, and tellls me she doesn't love me, that she isn't going to be my daughter anymore, then hugs and kisses her daddy, and i feel very Sad, guilty, but upset....what to do? HELP ME!

Answers:
"This too shall pass." as my Grandma always said. Tomorrow things will be different, and that's especially true with children.

When she says that to you, just say, "I'm sorry. But I still love you a LOT!!!" That will help. She just needs extra reassurance right now.

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well u should tell her that the new baby is a new addition to the family and that she is just as special and loved as the new one. maybe you should set asside sometime when the baby is asleep and spend it with her so she doesnt feel like she doesnt matter anymore.

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