Hi i need advice, my son toddler of age 21 months left for vacation with his father.?
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He will not only remember you but you will have the welcome of a life time when he see's you again! Don't worry.. just try to take time for yourself while you have the chance!
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Oh dont worry hes not about to forget you and he'll be very very happy to see you again! Its a tough thing to have them gone for so long when they are little...hang in there!
He will probably need to adapt to the situation when he gets back to you. 3 weeks is a long time for a toddler. I went to Canada for 3 days with my friends when my sons was 1 1/2 and when I came back to my moms to get him he would only sit on her lap and acted shy towards me. We have a very close relationship and it was not normal for him, but after about 20 minutes he was back to normal. I do not think he will forget who you are. Did you send him with some pictures? If so that is a good way to go. That way he can look at the pictures of you when he talks to you on the phone. It will be hard while he is gone and when he gets back, but he will adapt quickly I am sure.
he will be fine. my son went with my parents for a month on vacation when he was 2 and he not only loved it. but missed me so much. to this day he talks about it. and hes 20 now!
He will always remember his mommy. That voice the smell and that feeling the get when they are in your arms. Dont ever th ink that he will not remember you he loves his mommy.
*NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT*
Haha Don't worry your baby will remember you. You carried him for nine months so of course he will remember you!! While they are gone ENJOY the time you have to your self. Go get your nails done, go tan, go see a movie.... You better enjoy it while you can! He'll be ok. He will still love you as much as he did before he left.... Your his mother!!
Chances are your EX is going to have a difficult time with his son. You son is truly tooooooooooooooooooo, TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO young to be away from YOU, his primary care giver. Heck, my son is 8 and both his father (my ex) and I agree that three weeks at a time for HIM is too long. We only let him take 10ish day visits.
WRT your son remembering you, OF COURSE HE WILL!!! but don't be surprised if he doesn't want to go back to you right away. It would be natural for him to show reluctance, hence, too much time away from you. I'd say 5ish days at most, until he gets older.
He will certainly remember you. He is old enough to remember who you are. He might be more upset at not seeing you for so long, but things will be okay. If you are really worried about that, maybe you could send him email pictures of you while he is gone and call him everyday.
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Yep and he'll probably miss you as much as you miss him. :-)
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You poor baby :-)
I know the separation is difficult with a child so young.
But, rest assured, there is no WAY that child will forget hi mommy!
Try to have some fun and when you see him again I'm sure he'll come running straight for you!
He will remember you for sure. He will probably be really happy to see you again, but don't be surprised if he acts like he is mad at you, he does not understand why you didnt come and he may think you just left him? I know that sounds really bad, i'm not sure how to put it in a better way, my son was happy to see me after i had been gone but then he went back to grandma and just stared at me like how could you leave me! But he was just fine in a few minutes. It will be ok! Call him and tell him goodnight if you want to . That will make you feel better.
Don't worry my husband vanished when my son was 5 and a half months old -since then he has seen him in total for 4 weeks. Months apart - when he did come round my son was a bit clingy with me for half an hour then it was like he had never left. He didn't get in touch for months and months. My son knew exactly who he was - people who looked like him on the TV he would say Dada! When my husband did get in touch and my son was old enough to be able to talk on the phone - he did talk to him, he knows who he is, what he looks like and he gives him kisses on the phone. (he is 2 now)
Three weeks is a very short space of time (it will seem like forever to you) Honestly there is no way your son will forget his mommy!
Ask his father could he possibly give you a call a couple of times while they are away and put your son on the phone. Maybe it will make you feel better.
Keep your chin up - he will be fine, and he will always love his mommy. Daddy is no substitute no matter how nice he is.
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Personal experience.
If anything the question should be how is gonna do without you being there for three weeks.. you are his comfort zone. Imagine how you would feel if you couldnt wear your fav lip gloss for three weeks or something that you use everyday .. it still wouldnt compare. call him talk to him. you know the feeling of wanting to be home in your own bed once you have left for a trip. this is how he feels . so dont worry about him remembering you...worry about him missing you.
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