how can I avoid losing my temper with my son,and how will I be able to disciplen him?

my son is only 2 yrs. old and very hyper active but intelligent he likes to move around that will end him hurting himself. The poeple who sorrounds him seems to spoil him unintentionally.

Answers:
Are the people surrounding him family members or caregivers? You need to come to an agreement with them about what is acceptable and what is unacceptable behavior, and how you will deal with it
(time outs, the words you use to describe bad behavior, etc.).

These two books come highly recommended by friends who have children who sound similar to yours.

Raising Your Spirited Child
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0060923288/qid=1136413784/sr=2-1/ref=pd_bbs_b_2_1/104-1473295-5831919?s=books&v=glance&n=283155
1-2-3 Magic
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1889140163/qid=1136413834/sr=2-1/ref=pd_bbs_b_2_1/104-1473295-5831919?s=books&v=glance&n=283155

I haven't read this discipline book by Brazelton, but I have read his other works and his theories are sound and easy to implement:
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0738207837/ref=pd_kar_2/104-1473295-5831919?n=283155

Sounds like your son could also use a physical outlet. Two is not too soon to look into Gymboree or other toddler-appropriate activities that will give him an outlet and tire him out.

Good luck!

Other Answers:
You are the parent. You are the adult. You may need to stop him physically and then pull yourself away for a moment then discipline him.

Check out this link. It has a lot of great resources to help you and you can get all sorts of things for free to help you.
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http://www.family.org/

You have to set grounds let him know from the begining that you are the bose, never let him get away with anything, or let him run over you. If you get upset with him just walk into the other room until you calm down then come back to the situation. Let other people know that he is in trouble and they need to leave him alone and not spoil him unless they want to take him home and keep him. Never yell always talk in a calm voice I dont mean like a baby but calm. When you talk to him get down to his level dont talk over his head or from the other room. It worked for me good luck and let me know how it goes.

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