This toddler seems to hit a lot of other kids to get what she wants, if she hits my son again what shld I do?
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1 tell her mom and dont allow the child around ur child also explian to ur child that he shouldn't hit people for no reason but if they hit him he can hit them back u may not be able to hit them but he can!
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Well, try flickin her in the head and if her mother asks why she was cryin kinda push her to the floor so it looked like she fell.
Scold her... I think ppl are busy worring about being polite... they don't stand up for themsleves... if some kid hit ever hit my son a seciond time.. I wouldn' t even think about it... scold her too!! Her mother probably has no discipline, wich is why the kid keeps doing it even after the mother scolds her. Keep her away from your baby and express your concern for your child's safety to her mom, If that doesn't work, then tell her mom that if it continues your are going to file a complaint.
Stand your ground and refuse to allow her abuse your son in such a flaggrant manner.
Get down to her level and tell her, "NO! Be nice and share." Like someone previously stated, we need to stop trying to be so polite. It takes a village? Make sure you step up to help the village idiots child become productive!I would make a complaint to the mother, if it is continually happening, well, ther's something going on at home maybe no one knows about. Try calling child services and have them have a go at it. Maybe mom is abusive to the kid, maybe mom is abusive to th dad, maybe dad is abusive, who knows. Children learn it from somewhere. I had the same thing going on with my sisters' kids, who would come and be abusive to my children. My sister nor the childrens' father has custody of the children anymore. There was abuse and drugs all over the house, along with massive drinking. Maybe something is going on that you can't see on the surface. If this child persists with this bad behavior you need to tell the parent how out of hand it is getting.
If it still gets no better then you will have to tell her that you will not be allowing your child to play with hers any more.
there is no such thing as an aggressive toddler only a bad parent.
I'm not sure of where you are at in this situation.If you are with your child,stay with him while he plays.When you see the girl approach,stand in front at her level and tell her;"I'm sorry, but you may not hit him." At this toddler age, children don't have the language to express their wants or concerns.Scolding a child doesn't help either.Just watch her and her actions.If you witness her about to hurt another child,step in front and say the same thing,"You may not hit him." Don't even ask another child to share a toy with her. Toddlers don't have the concept of sharing. Instead tell her to go find something else to play with."I'm sorry he is playing with that, go find something else to play with." You are around when this happens? You have to hold the other child's hand to prevent the kid from hitting your kid. Or, you don't have to hold the hand, just block it. You have to do what you have to do to protect your child if it keeps happening. And you can scold the child verbally. Like, "no, it's not nice to hit other kids" etc.
Tell her,dont do that anymore or else ill tell yoyr mother and u wont get to play with my sons toy.or if that doesnt work,Get your voice a little angry.that really works trust me.
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