15 month weak proposal on biting needed!!?
any guidance would be really helpful
Answers: Bite her back! It may come across harsh, but that is what I did near my son. I bit him back hard eneogh for him to read between the lines it hurts and he never did it again. Sometimes we have to practice tough love to get results.
Hi! I'm sorry to hear that your child is biting and screaming. I found a couple of articles that can oblige you with your child. I hope all go well. Good Luck ^_^ The only piece to do is bite her back. Think about it, if you bite something you hold no idea what it feels similar to to be bitten. Your daughter needs to find out what it feels similar to. It seems mean, but it simply takes one or two bite-backs to stop them from this habit. When she bites you, don't say aloud anything, just immediately bite her pay for, she will get the message!
yeah i agree bite her back manifestly not hard but just so she know that it does hurt and eventually she will stop, my 18 month old starts headbutting everything when hes havung a tantrum, im not quite sure how im suppose to put a stop to that one though, but i do quality for you so good luck wuth that, You could always simply give her a small nip back. Tell her no and punish her by taking something she like away. If she likes a certain toy, help yourself to it away until she learns not to bite. If she bites you again after you take away the toy rob another toy away and so on.
Please...NEVER bite her back...this sort of stupid parenting is the reason so plentiful children in pre school hit and bite respectively other. violence is wrong yes? So why do it back? A strong NO.and afterwards refuse to look at her or speak.it works..a child does not reason approaching us...if you bite her she will think it is ok to bite. tke away her faviourate toy every time she bites. give her it put a bet on when she has calmd down and is playing nicely.
bite her 'gently' hindmost hard enough for her to realise it hurts DO NOT bite vertebrae it has been proven that it doesnt work it will single make things worse! if you bite her back she will estimate it is ok, if mummy can bite then why can i it is the same as hitting if mummy can hit later so can i!
my son went through this exact thing! hold on to being form with her bend down to her rank and tell her no, that naughty. and she will eventually realise, getting down tho her smooth shows you are no threat to her as you are not talking down to her! shouting also doesnt get you any where on earth it will make it worse! you are doing the right hting putiing her on the floor and leaving her to it, i do it next to my son (now 21months) and they learn that they have be naughty and will gradually stop! discount her as much as possible when you put her down and she will realise naughtiness does not reward!
This is gonna sound bad, but it really did work. My BIL's son (now 4) have always been a spoiled,wicked little monster--not his fault, but true. He would bite my son (only 5 days younger) because he is a very lenient, laid back kid. When they were both around a year out-of-date, he bit so much and so often, that I was at my wit's come to an end...I finally caught him once, teeth sunk into my son's arm, and I grabbed his arm and bit him. It wasn't very rugged, and it barely left a red easy target, but it did hurt him enough to make him stop biting my son! SOME PEOPLE anything you decide to d do not bit your child back.. becuase if some one see you doing that you can risk loosing your child..
if your child is in daycare as mine was when he started biting.. consequently it could be somehting hes picking up from day care.. and you may enjoy to switch daycares and try to correct the promlem on your own..
if he bites you take him away from what ever he\she is doing and you put them in the corner. and put together them sit there and you say biting isnt a pious boy\girl behavor.
The WORST advice is to bite the child back.
That is education that violence breeds violence.
And as the role model, if YOU bite, than why shouldn't she?
She is solitary 15 months old, and does not have the mental size yet to understand, "Oh I should put a stop to this biting time of war."
Ok that being said, what you CAN do:
First understand WHY she bites. It is because she is angry and cannot express her anger, frustration contained by words. So what you need to do is to TEACH her different ways to express anger. Show her to hit a pillow, USE HER WORDS even if they are minimal..."I'm mad, I'm sad" and salary attention to her when she says the words, and react appropriately.
When she does bite. Immediately give her a 'time out'. Remove her from the situation. Tell her it hurts "ouch" and tell her she must say aloud sorry before she is moved out of time out. Be consistant in this. If you own to give her a time out screaming in a restraunt, than so be it. Or help yourself to her out to the car. Let her know that biting is NOT the solution.
When a child is in the midst of a ill will, the best thing to do is to whisper something intently to them such as "stop it". Yelling is expected, and does not creep into as they will just yell louder to drowned you out. But if you shush in a harsh tone, it take them offguard , and they stop to hear what it is you are whispering so intently. (usually, not in adjectives cases of course).
It is also embarrassing for you when your child bites another child. And dealing with irate parents who's child have been bit, can be overwhelming. In that case, again, without delay put your child in a time out. Apologize to the parent. And make a big business deal over comforting the child she bit. Make your child see that she hurt the other child, and make her say she is sorry. If she refuse to apologize, again remove her from the situation all together, and bring her home for a time out, stand your ground and don't let it 'blow off', until she get that it a big 'no no' and you will not tolerate it.
get some teething biscuts sounds like she is contained by pain I would ask the doctor
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