My daughter only wants to pee on a diaper?

My daugter is 21 mos old. i know she's still young. i'm not potty training her. I just take off her diaper. it's okay for me if she has accidents. i just wan to try not putting diaper on her. i never mind cleaning if she wets herself. however, my daughter minds. she doesn't want to pee on her pants. she says she wants to pee and she's kinda holding her urine. she cries.
once, i put diaper on her, minutes later, she passed a lot of urine. she doesn't want to pee anywhere but on her diaper. i think she feels comfortable with her diaper on.
She knows how to say if she wants to pee now.
okay, i don't mean to potty train her or expect she can say and just pee. I just want to know why. i heard a lot about children who don't know if they are going to pee and they wet themselves, but never heard of one like my daughter, who only wants to pee on her diaper. i've tried to put underwear on her, she never pees for hours

Answers:
There are millions of kids like yours out there. They are ok naked till they feel the pee coming, then they ask for a diaper. You are missing your window of opportunity not to at least try to potty train her right now. Don't take the first step (no diaper) and then refuse to go farther, you are confusing her. When she asks for a diaper, take her and make her sit on the potty, even if you have to sit and read books for an hour, or feed her m&m's one by one to make her sit there, till the pee comes out in the toilet. Then give her lots of praise and maybe a reward.

You need to let her potty train on her own time...it seems that you're not wanting to put a diaper on her...she's not even 2...let her wear a diaper until she is completely ready...

More Questions & Answers...

The information provided herein should not be used during any medical emergency or for the diagnosis or treatment of any medical condition.

My daughter only wants to pee on a diaper?

Pregnancy & Parenting