2 year olds?
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I feel for you immensely! My 2 yr old is the same. It helps to know that the reason for the Sybil-like behavior is totally normal--- toddlers are trying to become autonomous; they are overwhelmed by the need to be separate from mommy and also their fear of separating. They also are very self-centered at this age: as far as they're concerned the universe revolves around them. It's okay, though. They do grow out of this eventually (some more quickly than others). Hang in there!
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they call this the 'terrible two's' all kids go through it, it's just a phase there's not much you can do about it except stay calm and be patient
they are going through terrible twos that's why they are called"terrible 2's". Maybe try and write down what she has eaten during a 24 hour period. Watch for things with preservatives, colouring and anything artificial. Try and make her eat more natural things. You will be surprised what the difference is. Red cordial/lemonade is a really bad one.Some flavorings in chips etc also. Give it a go , it can't hurt. Good Luck
coz they need affection. we sometimes neglect them at this age, they just needs extra of everything but you have to watch out coz at this age they want to get whatever they can of you, that is if you will give, you have to discipline her or she'll be your headache when she gets older.
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She does'nt know how to express herself to you so that you can understand how she is feeling thats why she is throwing her body and pulling her hair she is showing you how she feels on the inside, she would love to be able to say everything as fast as everyone else and have people understand her but to no avail, when she does these things hug her and tell her you love her and that you understand how upset that she is and how frustraded it must be not being able to tell you what she is feeling... now the whole time you are talking to her in a calming voice (and if she hits you just tell her thats not allowed that you don't hit then continue talking to her in your calming voice)pick her up and take her to the couch or chair with something favorite of hers like a stuffed animal, a book or even pudding and you both can share something nice together, what this has done is reduce her anxiety about what it was that she was not able to say also it has calmed her because she was listening to your soothing voice mom and the last thing is that you were able to turn the situation around and let her know that just because she was not able to tell you in words you knew she was unpset and that does not make her a bad girl. also think about buying simple signing books (sign language) you would be amazed at how happy the children become when they realize that they don't have to pull their own hair anymore. lol good luck
well some days she can be in a bad mood sometimes in a good mood ust dont dissapoint the child because at this stage in development they want to conquor the world but they have so many limitations that get in the way of their independance communication size lots of stuff you just have to be patient and help them work through it kids have been doing this since long before there were dyes and preservatives
learning their emotions and feeling them..their trying to cope with an onrush of feelings.. daily. this is the start. get a hard hat and ear plugs... you got a ways to go ......here's something to amuse her its free....
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