Help with my son!!!!please?

Question:

My son is attached to my mom like you wouldnt beleive! When i had him i lived with my mom and it was her first grandchild and she spoiled him. I moved out when he was 3 months old and he stayed the night with her every saturday night, then once he was like 2 years old he started being with her everyday from like 3 p.m. until she went to work at 8:00 p.m. which was fine with me because he had a 8 month old sister it was a nice break every day ( my mom lives across the street from me)! When he was 4 I went to Cinncinatti to visit a friend and my mom didnt want me to take him with me so i took my daughter and let my son stay with my mom I was gone for 3 weeks, When i came back my son didnt want to come home, So for almost a year he has been at my moms, she dosent have custidy of him or anything...he just would rather be there then with me...I see him everyday and he spends the night with me a couple times a week but he cries for my mom! He is 5 and i want my son back, what can i do!

Answers:
You need to MAKE him come home.He might be upset about it at first but he will get over it.Your Mom needs to help you too, by telling him he needs to go back to his real house with his real Mom.Maybe she could tell him she has alot of things to do and it's time he went back home.Let him know he can still go spend the night with Grandma sometimes, justnot as often.Is your Mom willing to help you or is she gonna fight you on this?I hope she doesn't.It's not fair to you or your little boy.I hope everything works out.Good luck!!

personally, I'd do what was best for the boy.... you should be glad you have a mom that cares so deeply for him.

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