I am 14 and my boyfriend is pressuring me for sex. I love him and I don't know what to do?
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Make him focus his effort on pleasuring you. So that you will enjoy it as much as he does. And of course, make him wear a condom.
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if your not ready and he loves you he really should respect your decision.....
well you say that you really love him and if he loves you the way that you do then take your time he will under stand oh and if u get married to someone else you wont even remember his name so slow down and take your time
If you are not ready then don't do it. If he wants sex from you and he loves you, he won't mind waiting. If he is giving you more and more pressure, than you know he only wants you for sex. Why would you want to do that while your only 14 years old? Girl, you shouldn't even be dating. Talk to your parents about it.
Do it when you are ready and if he can't wait, then he's not the one you should be doing it with!
If you are asking this question and don't know what to do about the pressure, then YOU ARE NOT READY! Please don't give in. You will regret it.
If you're unsure, then you're probably not ready. And like the last person said, if he loves you he will respect that decision, and not pressure you. Of course he's going to want sex on some level, he's a guy, but don't have sex with him for that reason alone, make sure you're completely ready. Ok? It's your decision too.
Also, if you do, be safe about it, ok? It wouldn't be fun to have a kid at 14.
Tell him no. No way, no how, no. 14 is too young. Your body is not ready for it if you got pregnant; you're not ready for it psychologically, either. Think of pregnancy as being grounded for about 18 years. You could catch a disease, too.
Tell the studmuffin that if he loves you, he'll respect your decision. If he doesn't respect it, he doesn't love you, or even respect you.
You should never do anything that you aren't ready to do. If he loves you, he will understand and back off a little. If he keeps pressuring you and you still aren't ready, tell him again and again. If he gets mad, he isn't worth it. You want your first time to be with somebody who cares about you and your feelings. If you do it before you are ready you will regret it. Sex is a special thing no matter what boys think and it should only be done when both people are ready. I know you are probably afraid of him dumping you, but your feelings are important and if he doesn't care then he is not the guy for you.
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personal experience
Say no until you are ready. If he loves you he will respect that and will wait
Don't do it!! First off you are a too young to date! And you are too young to know what love is! Second, if the guy respects you he won't pressure to have sex!! To you respect your own body?? If you do, you will have the will power to wait unil you are married!!
Don't give in, regardless of how long you've been together. It's your decision as to when you have sex, and you're probably not ready especially if you have to ask this question. If you are ready, you'll definitely know. You love him and I understand that, but if he's pressuring you and won't stop pressuring when you say you aren't ready then he isn't good enough for you and it's time to get out of that relationship. It will be hard, and maybe you'll decide to get back together later, but you need to stick to your guns and show him you're serious! Spend more time with your other friends and think about what you want to do with your life and where you want to go with it to keep your mind off of him.
Basically, say no and if he doesn't get the message, it's time to let him go and move on. Wait until someone who will respect you comes along.
if u don't feel that strong about having sex tell that u don't want to u should do anything u don't want to do bcuz sum1 else wants to
tell him that you dont want to,teenage boys have a tendency to want one thing after a girl (sex).If he really loves you then he will wait.
Just talk 2 him and tell him ur not ready yet a true love would wait.
Have safe sex and pleasure him.
I say if u want o then go 4 it! just be sure u r safe! use condoms and stuff and be awair that people get addicted!!
tell him that if he loves you then he should wait. if he doesnt then you're gonna have to split cos it'll only be one-sided
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