is it normal for a 14 yr old girl to want to become pregnant?
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Don't make the same mistake I did...
Dear La’Vitta,
My Precious baby… I miss you so much. I cannot begin to tell you how sorry I am. I regret what I did. I wish I could have died on that table when you did. I thought school and my dreams were more important and that you and I would have a bad life if you were born. Now I realize that you my child, my baby would be more important than any of that. Your birth date is coming up. No matter if I have another baby or not you were my first. You always will be. You are my special baby. I’m so sorry I was supposed to protect you. I was your mom. Ever since they sucked your poor little helpless body out of me I have felt so empty. Nobody knows pain and emptiness like I do. They said you couldn’t feel it but I know you could. I read it in a book that you already had developed your nerve endings. I hope I die as painfully as you. Even more so. I would give anything to take that day back. To have just run out of that room. Out of that murdering house of innocent souls. I wish I could have felt you kick. I wish I could hold you. I would have been the luckiest woman in the world to hold you in my arms. No one told me no Vitta! Everyone told me to do it. Why did I listen to them? I hate Jaime! I hate my mom! And most of all I hate your dad for not being a good person cause if I would have got pregnant by a good man I would have kept you. I was just so scared you wouldn’t have a daddy. Everyone told me if I had you, we wouldn’t have a good life. But Vitta, I would have done everything in my power to make you the happiest little girl in the world. That would have been the best moment in my life, to see you being born. I’d have so many pictures of you I’d have to rent an extra room. I wouldn’t care if a man didn’t want me cause I had you. **** him! I would have worked at Wendy’s all my life if I had to. I couldn’t use the option of adoption cause I just wouldn’t be able to give you away once I seen you or even just you kicking in my belly. How selfish of me. Now here I am still having sex! I have been so destructive to my self and my body since you’ve been gone. Multiple partners, doing porn, lying, cheating, … it’s like I am trying to make myself hurt. Life isn’t worth living without you. When I do have a baby… I will never love that baby like I love you. Any real love I had died when you died. Any ounce of dignity got sucked right out of me along with you. I am so fucked up now. I want to go to that clinic and tell all those girls, don’t do it! Don’t make the same mistake I did! But that won’t bring you back. None of those girls will be affected the way I am cause as I said nobody loves their dead baby more than I do. This is so painful to write but I finally had to do it! I will bury this letter just as you should have been with respect! I was a month pregnant when I found out about you. Took me two months to make a decision. It actually wasn’t completely made up; I just had to do it before the deadline. If I had a little more time to think I wouldn’t have done this. I cried every day you were inside me trying to figure out what to do.
I want to slit my throat. I would imagine my blood is my pain. As the pain seeps out of my body I would slip away to a place of darkness… leaving behind the reality of the horrible thing I did. I can’t live without you anymore baby.
Love,
Mommy
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I haven't met anyone who is 14 and wants to be pregnant.. Everyone is unique.
No. It's not normal. i dont think you should go get pregnent until your married but i mean mabey you dont want the babie you just want what it takes to make one
yes its part of our human nature to become parents so dont worry about it
GROW UP. It's a big responsibilitynope not at all. ull regret it later! PSYCHIATRIST!
It is not normal. Are you ready to be a mother and perform all duties as a parrent so far?
Its is normal but a very,very bad idea, it will pass try to sit with someones child ages 6mo-4yr at least 4 nights a week for six hours a night, then figure on not having any kind of social activities if you have one will quash it, try a therapist and discuss it with them, they will keep it confidential and help to explain the finer points of why you have these feelings:)Some children want to have babies cause they are cute and cuddly. They usually don't think about all the life and body changes that come with babies. You should wait, you're not ready yet. Enjoy being young cause it only happens once. Babies are not all fun , believe me.
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Just had my first baby. No! you wont want to though with this cause you will need a babysitter for when you go to school. you will have to take care of it all the time and babies cry for hours so your wondering what the heck is this baby crying about?. and you'll have to change thousnads of diapers. your boyfriend wont want you anymore and you'll break out of acne from stress of school and being a parent. your parents may abanden you and kick you out for ever thinking about this and attempting it. and you'll have to buy baby food,clothes,bottles,and a walker,and a baby bed and arent you still on your allownence?. you will want to go out to a movie but oh right remember you have a baby to take care of?. so i think you need to think about a lot of things beore you consider this trust me you dont wanna go there!.
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my sister.
ha ha. You know it's funny. I'd like to be pregnate too. I've always wondered how many kids I'd have in the future. I'm 15. And to answer your question, no it's not funny at all. I'm sure lots of kids under ten think about beign pregnate too. My friend is 12. She said she wants to get pregnate too. Crazy little girls lol
ya by curiosityNo, you really need to talk to someone you can trust about this, it's not healthy for you to feel like that. x What is normal, really? I don't think that a 14 year old should want to be an adult, and subsequently should not want to be pregnant. A 14 year old should want to be a teenager, want to be with friends, missing curfews, having fun. I would think that there is a strong void in your life if you're ready to skip your teens and be part of the "adult" world, fully of responsibility and reality.
No offence but your stupid, you have no idea how much work a baby is. Just go to the store and look at how much baby supplies such as diapers are. You also need time to get a job, take care of the baby and go to school.
It is normal to want to fill some sort of void in your life with something to love or to love you. However... wanting a baby, not really. Babies are expensive, time consuming and forever. Enjoy your teenage years, get a puppy.no its not normal and i would say u need to go talk to your mommy about all that hurry and run to ur mommy and talk to her You are much too young to handle that kind of responsibility- there may be a need in your life to nurture something or someone and one great way of handling that would be to babysit or help out in a preschool or day care center. You might want to talk to your school guidance counselor or your pastor or favorite aunt or your mother. It often helps to talk to someone and might give you an insight on why you are feeling this way at this time in your life.
Nope. Its a big responsibility. Finish school then get a job.
you need to talk to someone about this cause there is something wrong maybe you need to feel loved. always remember Jesus loves you God Bless You and good luck to youIt's a normal feeling sometime's, if your feeling alone, or depressed, or unwanted, ect, but please dont do it, at 14 years old you have so much more of life ahead of you. Sorry, but honestly, that's the first time I've heard of somethin like that. And maybe u may wanna, but don't get pregnant till ur at least 21. My mom had me when she was 18 and at 1st had no clue how to take care of me.
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Emily xoxo
No! If a 14 year old wants to get pregnant then she doesn't know what exactly that entails. My friends is 14 and she got pregnant and it has ruined her life. The father probably won't stay and the money is hard to come by these days, exspessialy if its a 14 year old mother. Trust me, you don't want to have a kid. You have your whole life ahead of you, don't screw it up. Sometimes people want to have kids early beacause they think the baby will love them unconditionally unlike other people iin the family or enviorment. This is not true. If anything, the baby will come to resent you for having it so early. Don't get pregnant. Not yet anyway.
ok see here's the reason why you don't need to bring any children in this world..........you CANNOT become pregnant without having sex ESPECIALLY if you are a healthy person. If you were say 35 years old with uterus problems then there are other methods of having a baby without sex involvement...but since you JUST BARELY GOT OUT OF YOUR OWN DIAPERS....you need to slow your thought process down with all that baby nonsense and stick your head in some books and get educated.
You are not ready for a BABY....you still wiping your own BUTT with the tissue YOUR MOTHER BOUGHT YOU....so keep your head off of babies.....
no you are to young wait a least until your 18-21years old and you can support you and your child It isn't abnormal to have desires about wanting a baby...but they are basically coming from the hormone surges you are going through at your age. Having a baby is a huge responsibility, one that a 14 year old isn't prepared for yet, and shouldn't have to concern herself with for several years. Don't worry...when you get older you'll meet someone with whom you'll fall in love, hopefully marry, and have your own family with someday. But right now, concentrate on doing well in school, having fun with your friends, and enjoying your teenage years. As far as the not wanting to have sex yet, good for you.
Talk to your parents about the feelings you are having, and they can help you understand them.
Hope this helped. well..i wouldnt necesarilly say this is nomal...
but i mean if you really want to become pregnant you obviously will need to have sex, but i mean look online for going through a pregnancy and all the symptoms if you havent already...then you might think twice about getting pregnant!
Please DO NOT act on this impulse.
You're day will come when you meet that "perfect" man.
Enjoy your teen years.
Motherhood will come soon enough
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