$400!!......wha... is their problem?
Question:
i found out that it would be $400 and the hole reason i was considering it is because we cant afford a baby so if i cant afford it how can i afford to not have it that makes no sense at all
Answers:
Im sorry that you got pregnant. Itis insane how much wanting or not wanting a baby costs. Did you know that people out ther who want a baby and are as fortunate as you to get pregnant could and up paying over 50,000 dollars just to be able to call a baby there own whether it be by birth or adoption. All these people on here yelling at you for the descions you are making are ignorant. It is your life and you need to do what you want or feel is right. Have you considered giving the baby up for adoption? There are alot of people who want kids. You could make a couple very happy. Plus if you want you could have an open adoption and still be able to see your child grow up and be able to explain to him/her why you did what you did. If you go to plan parenthood it shouldnt be so expensive. I believe that they go on a sliding scale. I hope you change your mind, but dont let people critize you for your actions its your life not theres...If you would like to talk more pleae email me...
Other Answers:
dont have sex
Condoms are cheap If you can't afford to have a baby why don't you use BIRTH CONTROL!! (or any control for that matter)
If you can't afford to have a baby - and you want it - you can apply for medical cards (issued by the state that you live in) they pay for doctors visits and your stay in the hospital when you have the baby. The baby is automatically issued a card when it's born and therefore it's medical needs are paid for. WIC will buy milk, cheese, eggs, etc. for you before the baby is born and formula for the baby afterward. It's easier to afford a baby than an abortion because you can have a baby shower to get things like clothes and diapers. No one will lend you money for an abortion.
I know what you mean how is a teenager that can't afford to have a baby and want to terminate there pregnancy afford an abortion as well?I dont know, maybe it's a blessing in disguise...have your sweet little baby! You can do it! maybe they are so high so you will think twice about doing it....if you didnt want somebody to buy something off of you, you would make it really expensive, right?
That's how it should be, I think they should cost even more! Your killing a human being, and it shouldn't be cheap. That's so messed up, to just give up a life because you made a mistake and got pregnant. You knew what you were doing when you had sex, and you know what can happen! You shouldn't penalize an innocent child for your mistake. Give it up for adoption to a family who will actually care, love, and take care of it. Give it to someone who has tried for years and years and can't have a child, and really wants one. Don't kill it!!!!!
THERE ARE A LOT OF ASSISTANCE PROGRAMS OUT THERE. A LITTLE WORD OF ADVICE ===WRAP IT UP=====I know how you feel. I was contimplating an abortion with my third pregnancy, and I looked up info online about it. I decided I wasn't going to have one, and now I have a baby girl that is 7 months old. (plus 2 older boys)
I know you feel like you can't afford it, and it maybe isn't the right time for it, but we couldn't afford it, either, and believe me, it seems that God always provides for us, we always seem to get everything they need. You can shop garage sales for nice clothes, cribs, etc and you can shop on Ebay, you can go to thrift stores as well.
Besides, I read that most women that go into having an abortion go into the clinic thinking this is their only option, but walk out feeling like, "What have I done?"
Do you REALLY want to kill your own flesh and blood?
If you can't afford it, give it up for adoption. At least, the baby will be raised in a loving home that can afford it. If you really want to keep the baby, get some help. Talk to your parents. Sign up for the insurence paid for by the government and get on WIC. Next time, use birth control. You might want to check with your family doctor and there might be a clinic he is aware of that basis it on your income. There are alot of free clinics and health dept that go by your income and some will even do it free if you have no money! Talk with your parents and make sure this is what you truly want to do before you do it. Good luck to u
If you know that you cannot afford kids, then either do not have sex or use birth control which is cheaper in the long run. It does not take a rocket scientist to even figure that out.
keep the baby u got your self in to it u can git your self outI had an abortion a few years ago, and it didnt cost me anything. Mind you, I live in Canada. I had a friend who went to the states for an abortion because she was too far along to legally get one in Canada, so maybe you can find a way to swindle that... see if you can come to Canada for one somehow and you might not have to pay for it. normal your heath insurance will cover it. or you can get help from the state to help you pay for it.
ADOPTION is cheap and then you won't have the guilt of murdering an innocent child!!!!
Go to your local womens clinic they should help for free it is a state funded thing.If they raise the price maybe there will be less abortions and people will be more carefull. I know someone who had to face the difficult decision to abort. She didn't have the money to pay for it so she asked the father to pay for it. He did, but until then I thought they were free. That is an outrageous amount of money!!
No, do not have an abortion. It is murdering a baby. If you don't want the baby, consider adoption. You can get on WIC and other plans AS LONG AS YOU ARE NOT MARRIED. Hold off on the marriage to your fiance until you are financially stable.
There is plenty of financial help available for you and your baby. Please go to a pregnancy care center near you and see how they can help. All of their services are totally free and confidential. They can give you referrals for financial, medical, legal, and housing assistance; free ultrasounds; free maternity and baby supplies; pregnancy, parenting, and adoption information; and counseling and emotional support. You can find one near you here:http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp
You are under no obligation to take any of their advice, of course. They are just there to help. Please give them a chance and see what they have to say.
Also, please make sure you have all the facts before you do something you might regret the rest of your life:
Photos of Abortions:
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html
A Four-Minute, Must-See Video on Abortion:
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html
Information on All Aspects of Abortion:
http://Abort73.com
Photos and Facts About Prenatal Development:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm
Pain Perception in the Unborn:
http://www.advocatesfortheinnocent.com/fetalpain.html
Abortion Stories:
http://abortiontv.com/Words/truestoriesfrom-mothers.htm
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-G-2-testimony.html
Abortion Risks:
http://afterabortion.info/complic.html
http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp
http://www.standupgirl.com/site/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=218&Itemid=40
Abortion Deaths:
http://www.lifedynamics.com/Pro-life_Group/Pro-choice_Women
http://www.afterabortion.info/news/abortiondeaths.html
http://www.lifeissues.org/ru486/deaths.htm
Support for Pregnant Teens:
http://standupgirl.com/site/index.php
Support for Pregnant College and Career Women:
http://www.nurturingnetwork.org
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