is anal sex fun cause my b-f wants to do it to me will it hurt?
Answers:
Yes its fun ...
Other Answers:
it's only fun if both of you are consenting. and as for the size issue, try some good lube. that'll help.
tell him anal sex is for gay men
It will hurt at first, but I'm told it can be quite pleasurable after the initial insertion.
You need to make sure you have some sort of lubrication (BUY SOME don't use spit or something) and make him go slow. You must tell him how much to insert and how quickly, if it hurts make him back off a little until your muscles get used to it. You have to go very slow at first but once your muscles are relaxed, he can thrust as fast as he likes.
I say, do it the one time, and if you don't like it, don't let him pressure you into it again.
ya it will. the anus is for b.m exiting not for anything to go in
only do it if YOU want to, dont do it just because he does...if he really cares he'll understand...its not the best thing in the world for a girl, i dont think youll enjoy it very much.
If u wanna try it out i'll be a gentleman and help u with ur problem this way if you dont like it u dont have to hurt his feelings. Some girls say its like taking a poop backwards.
the best do it all day you will love it my favorite
Even if you are both consenting, it doesn't mean that it's fun.
You can agree to do it, and he can agree to do it, but it still doesn't mean you'll enjoy it.
The most important things to keep in mind- him and you- is that you should use lubrication, he should wear a condom (especially if you plan on vaginal intercourse afterwards, because there is risk of spreading bacteria) and you need to make certain that YOU are in control at all times.
He needs to be patient, and go as slowly as you tell him to. It will probably feel uncomfortable for you at first, and if you're not mentally into it, you won't enjoy it.
Communication is most important- control how fast and how deeply he goes; you may even need to try several times for you to get used to the feeling. Once it reaches a point of discomfort for you, tell him immediately, and make certain he withdraws slowly as well, as it can hurt when he pulls out.
Once you get comfortable with full insertion (if you ever do) that doesn't mean he should start going at it full steam- he still needs to take his time.
Finally, if you don't enjoy it, you don't enjoy it. If he guilts you into it, no amount of guilt will make it feel good for you.
If you don't want to do it, but he insists, tell him you'll do it only if you can do it to him with something of comparable size. That will more than likely end the issue.
I've only been with one girl who absolutely loved it, one girl hated the idea, and everyone else preferred vaginal intercourse (as do I) so it never became an issue for any of us.
As far as fun goes, everyone has thier own likes. I dont like it, but I know girls who do. As far as it hurting, it will if you go too fast. And with any type of intercourse, make sure it's something you want to do. No man should ever force you into anything you feel uncomfortable about. For it to be enjoyable make sure you are turned on enough so that your muscles are relaxed. Start out with some nice lubercation, make sure it's water based as other types can damage a condom. Then SLOWLY have him insert his penis. With all things, it will hurt if you aren't relaxed and go too fast. There is also a special type of lubrication called Anal-ease you can use too that helps numb the area to help reduce the pain. Also it isn't good for the man to ejaculate inside your anus. So make sure he pulls out if he isn't wearing a condom. Your anus opening is made up of delicate tissues which can become infected if residue remains. So make sure you clean yourself when you are finished. Also make sure you DO NOT use the same condom inside your vajina. The bacteria inside your anus can harm your vajina and can lead to infection. So make sure you put on a fresh one. Also dont forget that STD's can spread through the anus as well as the vajina. So wear a condom.
anal sex is painful, dangerous and a great way to leave yourself open to a ton of health and emotional issues, but if you really want to do it, keep it to yourself.
i was under the impression that this was a q&a forum for people with questions about parenting a teen or preteen. now i guess it's really just a way for kids to find out anything they want to know about sex.
You should practice alone first with your finger, a candle or magic marker. Practice for about a month and then you'll have an answer for him but you will no longer be in the relationship with him so whats the difference.
any sex is weird the first time. it will hurt at first but then u will seem to enjoy it. WARNINNG : do anal sex only if u really wanna have it.
Tell ur guy that his cucumber will all be messed up when he takes it out.
dont do it. that thing was not meant to go there!!!!! stuff is too come out not go in
Gross!
what do you think i mean you see gay guys and the way they walk dont you that should tell you something
yes it will hurt like a mother at first and the feeling isn't so pleasant but if i were you, don't do it if you're uncomfortable about it. it took me about 6 months to let my boyfriend stick it in the other end.
More Questions & Answers...
- will angelina marry greg?
- What is circumcision of girl ? How does it affects sexual performance of the girl?
- ok, so i asked what to do about my 13 yr old flipping me off, 11 out of 20 people suggested physical violence?
- Teens in the pool?
- Is there any technique of?