I need help, my 16 yr old is going to get beat up at school tomorrow?
Answer:
I would just call the school and let them know whats going on, but tell them not to let anyone know about you calling so that your son will not get made fun of or be mad at you. That way they can keep an eye on things. Ask them to let your sons teachers know about boy picking on him. At least then they will know it is not your son causing the trouble to begin with. If he keeps staying home they will just say he's to chicken to come to school and think he really did do what the rumor said., also not to scare you but kids are messed up these days, you don;t want someone really hurting him over this so you may not care if he is mad at you for a few days right?
Other Answer:
Take the girl into confidence things will get sorted out.
You did the right thing by keeping him home! Especially since this was the last day of school. Maybe you can call the girl or the girl's parents and set everything straight, or have your son call. Wait until everything cools down, then call. did you call the police when you got the kid breaking into your car? if it's the last day of school, i think you should go to some authority figure. otherwise, there's nothing you can do alone to prevent it.
Always tell the principle or authorities... your son has his pride to worry about thats why he doesn't want u to tell. But his saftey comes first... his health will be ok, and by next school year the kids will forget that he told!
Let him stay home if he is afraid, If he is not afraid then let him go, and you stay put and let him handle this, so that in the future he won't be known as a wimp or sissy. Who knows, maybe he will kick his ***.I WOULD TELL THE SCHOOL...IT IS FOR HIS SAFETY! AND I WOULD NOTIFY THE POLICE AS WELL THEY CAN CHARGE THE BOY FOR THREATS AND TELL HIM TO STAY AWAY FROM YOUR SON...IT WILL WORK IF YOU NOTIFY THE POLICE BECAUSE IT WILL SCARE THIS OTHER BOY AND HIS PARENTS WILL(HOPEFULLY) YELL AT HIM.SCHOOL VIOLENCE IS SERIOUS!
GOD BLESS YOU FOR BEING A LOVING CARING WONDERFUL MOTHER:)
Paying someone money to beat someone up is a crime and needs to be reported to the police. By the time summer is over it could have blown over. my nephew had similar problems at school and my sister interfered and made it worse for him. I am sure my nephew created some of his problems but like i said his mother didn't help the situation. Then she promised him that he could come live with me in the winter and go to school in my town. Two weeks later she said she had went to the school and worked out his problems with the principal. And my nephew had a miserable last year of school, his problems wasn't worked out they now called him a nark, tripped him in the hallway and so forth. Think long and hard about what you want to do. school is all most out but i wouldn't let anyone vandalize my property either and i wouldn't let them get away with beating up my child. Listen to allybaba, she's got it right. Is there someone much larger than this other kid who could meet your son after school & make sure he gets home okay (not a parent), such as an older brother/cousin/friend? Implied intimidation might discourage further confrontations. Any chance your son could transfer to another school next year?
he is gonna get a smack with out doing the deed, other girls will want him
If your kid is 16, then I assume that the others are in the same age group. Go to the School and ask for the School Resource Officer, he should be a member of your Police Dept. If you don't have an SRO, call the Police and ask for an Officer to meet with you at the school WITH the Principal.The kids can get expelled starting the next school year, and the Police can tell them that if they retaliate or send some else to your house that they will be picked up and charged even as adults because of their ages. Ask that a report get filed and that the parents get called. I would ask the parents be called while the kids are in the room.
Don't keep your son home. He losses out on the last day rituals and it makes him look guilty in the eyes of the other kids.
Contact police and dont send him to school. sounds like the girl and the boy needs to be locked up(not you're son)
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