I had a miscarrage 2 months ago,and it was my first,and im kinda scared that itll happen again?
Answers:
I know how you are feeling and i know how you are thinking because that is happening to me too.
I miscarried in may of 2005 and i don't trust my body now. I don't want to ever go through that kind of pain again.
All you can do is to pray for the strength to let go and try again. Just because one happened dosen't mean another one will but i know you think it will just like i do.
I do have a 4 year old son and when i was pregnant with him it was pure hell. I had morning sickness morning, noon and night and i had pre-eclampsia and had to have a c-section.
So when i miscarried it is making me think i am not meant to have more than one. I mean i haven't been on birth control in 7 years and have just got pregnant once since my son but miscarried.
Everything does happen for a reason. I do look at it this way maybe something was wrong with the baby and that is why i miscarried.
But i know i done nothing wrong that caused it and neither did you so don't blame yourself.
If i hadn't of miscarried my baby would be going on 5 months now and it bothers me but not as much pain as when it first happened.
The doctor told me to wait 2 months before trying again but i haven't.
Q: I've already had one miscarriage. Does this mean I'm more likely to have another one?
A: Having one miscarriage does not increase your chances of having another. If you have had only one prior miscarriage, the rate of spontaneous abortion in a subsequent pregnancy is similar to the overall rate in the general population.
Q: After my miscarriage, how long should I wait before I try to conceive again?
A: It is suggested that you wait two normal periods (around eight weeks) before you try to conceive again. Ovulation can resume as early as two weeks after a miscarriage, so you should use effective contraception immediately.
Q: Can being too active cause a miscarriage?
A: No. Working, exercise, and sexual activity do not increase the risk of miscarriage. Also, miscarriages rarely occur because of stress or trauma.
Good luck and god bless your heart
Other Answers:
Pray! The Lord will answer you...
its ok it happens to everyone
just try again
That's a hard question to answer. If I had a miscarriage I too would be scared it would happen again, I bet you went through a lot of pain and emotional distress when you miscarried. But my advice is to just let time heal your wounds, remember that you will have another kid one day, and he or she will be healthy and wonderful. But just give yourself some time and don't let your awful experience ruin the joy of life!
It's really hard to tell. I'd say if you want to try again make sure you are as healthy as can be, maybe start taking prenatal vitamins to be sure you are getting enough folic acid and other nutrients and don't worry so much. My husband and I were trying for like 7 months, which isn't a long time considering other couples situations, but the week we decided to stop trying until we got back from Hawaii I found out I was pregnant. So I also think a lot of it is in the head. That's just my suggestion.
Most woman have at least one in their lifes and it might but just be careful and pray
Miscarriages are common. In many ways it is your body's way of rejecting an unsafe or abnormal pregnancy. Make sure to give your body the proper time it needs before you attempt to conceive again. Your doctor can help you determine this also.
Many women end up having a healthy pregnancy after a miscarriage. So think positive and realize there are many women who have experienced a miscarriage. Talk to a friend if it helps to overcome the anxiety.
It is perfectly normal to have this fear. In 2004 on Mother's day I had a miscarriage and my last pregnancy was very scary. I was watching the calendar and marking down the weeks until my child could live outside my womb without risking to much. Don't worry about it. I would just be careful to limit my stress and take good care of my body if I was you. If you do get pregnant again, your doctor should monitor you to see if there are any signs of a miscarriage occuring.
I know how hard it is, I always cry and get depressed when Mother's day comes around. It is perfectly normal to grieve if you do. You lost your child and cannot get him/her back.
Good Luck and I hope everything goes well in the future!
Source(s):
Third year medical student getting phd in obstetrics and genecology
mother of three wonderful children
I had a misscarriage last june and I am due with another this Aug. Miscarriage is soo much more commmon then people talk about. OSme people don;t even know they had one. IT is a natural form of life. I am still upset and wondeer if it was a boy or girl etc...but I know god has a plan for everything so I just thank him for all the experinces in life. good luck
More Questions & Answers...
- What is it if you have yellow mucus discharge at 6, almost 7 weeks?
- Is it okay for my husband to be at our baby shower? I was told it was not proper.?
- what is labor and birth like is it painful and scary.?
- How to prevent stretch marks.?
- What are some good exercises that can be done while you are pregnant?
- Why do so many people think sperm dies as soon as it hits air??