I told my sister who had a stillborn baby six months ago i am pregant she was very upset.?


How should I handle it I want her to be apart of this with me

Answers:
first, realize that her reaction is completely normal. she has had a very sad loss and it will take time and love and support for her to get through it. be patient with her. tell her that you can understand her feelings and you want to support her and love her.
You really can't ask her for anything just yet, you need to be giving to her. she will get better in her own time, and her family's love will help her do it.
i feel sure she will love and be happy for your baby when the time comes.
*hugs*
This is going to be hard for her. Give her space, you can't make her be a part of this. But also let her know that she can be a part of this if she wants to. She's still grieving the loss of her child and your pregnancy just reminds her of her loss. Try to be supportive, but don't pretend like you understand completely (unless you have lost a child).

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