(serious question i have here)if complication acured during childbirth would u sacrifice your child or yoursel


Question:
would you pick yourself to die or the unborn baby???? Why ???????????????????

very serious question iam asking???

Answers:
If I had to choose between my life and my baby's life it wouldn't be a choice my baby would live. Weather the baby is born your not it would still be my child. Just like if I had a small kid who had a chance to live or me my child would be the one to live. My children will always come first. However that's just they way I feel. If there's something going on with you then you need to think about what would be best for you and your child. In my case I know that no matter what my child will be taken care of and will always have love in her life. Good luck with everything and I hope this will help you out.

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I would choose to let my baby live because I have done my time and want them to enjoy theirs :)
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EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON
they don't usually give you the option - they save you and don't tell you they had to choose, just that the baby didn't make it.
I would die because death equals life.
it wouldn't be your choice, the dr would choose unless your next of kin was there...if something happens to you, the baby dies....if they get the baby out, you could die afterward...realistically, it's usually the baby
I would chose my baby to live. Since I have lived for so long I believe my child deserves the right to enjoy life as well. I hope there isn't anything wrong though with either of you. Good luck and god bless
As a mother of a beautiful 15 month old boy, I would give my life for his. A child has not had the chance to experience life and all of the joy and beauty it has to offer. Eventhough I am 32 - I would be more than happy to sacrifice my own life to save my unborn child's! How do you feel about the question you have asked? What would you do? Are you OK, is there something going on with your pregnancy or with your health? I hope this question is just theoretical and that you will nevber have to make this kind of decision.
I would have to choose myself cause i have a 4 year old to live for...But i would give my life up for my beautiful son
I would choose myself because I would not want the child to grow up motherless or leave my husband or child now. I would feel so bad about it though
i would sacrifice myself ofcourse, but mostly they choose the unborn baby and saved you. safety for the mother is number one while complication occured, thats my doctor said to me.
i choose myself

to live, that is
my baby beacaus i would want them to have a life and them have children and i would watch her grow up or him to have children ;)
If it occured during childbirth and they could only save one?....I'd probably pick myself. Not for me, but for the three children I already have at home. Their quality of life would suck if they gained a sibling but lost a Mom. I have them to think of too. And I'd mourn my 4th baby and wait to hold him/her in heaven one day.
Hi , I have just given birth to my second child . If I were to have complications in a third pregnancy , I would definately choose to save my own life as I have my other children to raise .
I could not bear the thought of them growing up without their mummy . I love my kids more than my life , but I would prioritise the children that have known me and love me over a newborn that has not yet formed an attachment to me .
Also , I believe that the baby would always have a sense of guilt hanging over their head if they grew up knowing that I had died to save them and by doing so , abandoned their older siblings and them .
I sincerely hope that you are philosifying only and that you have not encountered such a tragic predicament . My best wishes to you .
I would choose my own life- but it's hard because I would also want my baby to live- and I would feel selfish if my baby died. But then again, who would look after it and what would happen to my immediate family- they would miss me very much. If my baby died I would feel like dying too and I'm bringing it into this world and life is the most beautiful gift anyone could give- I would feel I was depriving the gift of life to my son or daughter.
doctors usually suggest that you sacrifice the baby because one father and mother can make another baby.

but, one father and a baby cant make another complete family. there are also concerns about the other children losing their mother ( in case you have other children). Moreover, in the complication stage, the unborn baby may be already compromised- long before you can make a decision.

however, the choice is yours
It would depend on my baby's father. If he knew he would have to support a child alone and be the single parent and was okay with that thought than I'd choose the baby. If nobody was going to step up and care for the child to give it a good life than I wouldn't put it through that.
I would choose the child's life over my own. I have already had such a wonderful life and if it needs to end to let this new little life begin then I feel that is what is meant to happen for us.

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