My cousin is pregnant and she is only 13 how should I tell her how bad it is????

Answer:
I am sure that she already realizes the mistakes she has made and now she has to pay the consequences. You should be there to support her and help her through this difficult time in her life, i am sure that she will appreciate that more than your criticism.
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She probably knows how bad it is, but if she doesn't, she should.

I would say just support her and keep loving her. She probably already feels guilty enough and knows that it wasn't a good thing to do.

its to late now

At 13, she does not have the maturity to tend a baby. Try referring to counsellors.

Sarah...

I am not sure for this, but I can give you a good advice. Consult an expert immediately and dont count on anonymous ppl's opinions. Maybe they have something good to say - but what you need is the opinion of an expert!

Ooooooohhhhh. That is bad. VERY bad.

I wouldn't tell her. If she doesn't already know, she will soon. Give her love and support. Being a mom is stressful and there is always a risk of post partum depression. When the time comes I would greatly stress the importance of not repeating this error.

Support is good. Expert is better. Her BODY is not physically mature enough for that ordeal.

Tell her parents. Let them deal with it. They are still her legal gaurdians.

she probably knows how bad it is

Hi sarah!

Lets see, I know a girl who had her first baby when she was 15 years old and she was scared to death. I think you need to tell your cousin about childbirth so that she won't be as scared. She needs an understanding person right now. She made a big decision and she has to deal with it, but she shouldn't have to deal with it all alone. She needs family more than anything right now. Tell her.

tell her how it is tell her she f***ing mesed up her life. but suport her.

That is bad

No maybe if you let her find out on her own then she will think twice about having unprotected sex at such a young age

hi sarah,
i would like to tell you that at such age a female cannot simply give birth to a child and even if she does then it would have some complications and in any case she must really know what kind of compromises she has to give if she has a child when she is a child herself.giving birth to a child is not the end infact one has to be sure of their responsibilities!!in my opinion just dont do it. just have fun you will have a second chance.just tell her she may understand.

thats is not good at all. she need to know how her future is going to be...has she told her parnets yet?

I think she knows how bad it is, but you need to make her tell her parents. or at least YOU should tell YOUR parents and let them help her. being Pregnant is scary she probley doesn't know whats gunna happen to her body or anything. instead of putting her down help her. there was a 14 year old girl in my church and she got pregnant and instead of being cruel to her, the whole church got together and helped her. she ended up giving the baby up for adoption and now is a very active member of the church, she talks to the kids about not having sex. so this doesnt have to be negative. Love her help her and give her Support. Good Luck

tell her know that you have a kid on away you need to get a job and support it. you have get your education pay for day care, buy diapers and all the other stuff.

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My cousin is pregnant and she is only 13 how should I tell her how bad it is????

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