14. sex minus parent consent, helpppp.?
and i'll just go and get right to the point.
i want to have sex.
yes.
dont waste your time and speech me, i just need a prompt helpful answer.
i of course want to use protections so i dont become pregnant,
so i be thinking a condom, but then again they could break so condom+a pill would work. but i then found out you cant bring back a pill over the counter..
so.
i was thinking.
i could just use a condom,
and next if it broke i could just get a wonderful article called EMERGENCY CONTRACEPTION :D. its over the counter, so i could just acquire it at like zellers :]. is this a good view?
Answers: Honestly your first idea pill AND condoms was the best. You will be much better past its sell-by date to use both those methods and if that involves talking to your mother about it afterwards you should do it. I know it is embarassing. Why do you want to have sex? She might try to talk you out of it, which isnt necessarily a fruitless thing. Good luck, glad you are thinking contraception
no it's not. for one thing, those over the counter "emergency contraceptives" aren't tested on or usually approved for use on race as young as you. And for very correct reason, they aren't necessarily safe for someone as childlike as you are, your body isn't as mature as someone who is fully grown. It can cause a host of callous things including permanent infertility and in some cases even demise.
Seriously, sex at 14 isn't a good idea. The dude doesn't love you, they never do at that age. Whatever, you don't want a urge, so I'll state is simply, sex is for people mature plenty to handle the reprocussions of it and you clearly are not. Yes that does sound approaching a good idea, because as you already know they can break and pregnant at 14 resourcefully thats not such a good thing.. you seem to be very educated and to be exact good since your mind is made up about have sex. Do you have any older friends that could return with you birth control? I used to get it for my sister when she was younger, my mom is someone who you cant sermon to about sex ever! You can also use spermacides along with condoms. Also google/yahoo a fertility calender that will share you when you are ovulating and just try to avoid any intercourse on those days. Good luck and stay safe!
Honestly, sex at 14 isn't going to be adjectives that great I mean what 14 year old even know what they are doing in bed...next to none. Also he is going to finish is approaching .00003 seconds and you aren't even going to be left self-satisfied, just wait until you are elder and mature enough to touch the consequences of sex. Also there is no reason you want to do it other later the fact that you probably think it's cool...capably it is a lot cooler when you and they guy actually know what you are doing and know how to pleasure other citizens, which at 14 is doubt full. I know you don't want a lecture about sex lacking parental consent, but have you thought about the guy you're planning on have sex with?? Isn't 14 too young to be properly having sex? If the guy is older than you, he may be sent to detention centre if anyone finds out. Sorry but you are gonna get more lectures from people on here.
I deem you have to be older to return with the emergency contraceptive don't you? I'm not sure where you are at but here in Texas they ask for your self. I would suggest using spermicide with the condom. You can buy it over the counter and it has worked well-mannered for me in the past. Say hello to the girl who get preggo at 14 on her first time, used a condom and used EC, but turns out alot of people are allergic to it and had to put in the picture my mother anyways and get an abortion while my loving boyfriend got sent to incarcerate for beating up his mother because she called me a slut when we told his parents :D
wow no fun huh?
BIRTH CONTROL! i vote the shot!
you can achieve free condoms and birth controll at your health department!!
its easy no question or anything.
just go contained by and ask for them and they give them to you!!
but read the directions on the pills!!
you have to give somebody a lift them just right and have to be on them for a while b4 they work..
u can newly take one and that night enjoy sex!!
so..be careful.
and...im around that age and have have sex.
so...no lectures here!!
haha
good luck!!
I feel similar to wasting my time.
The fact that you're not able to speak near your own mother about this or your would-be sexual partner is a sign you're NOT prepared to be sexually active and a potential parent.
You want a infant? No.
NOTHING is 100% effective except not having sex.
you can obtain birth control, condoms, anything at plan parenthood.
without parents. :]
but it is a upsetting thing.
really scary.
putting adjectives your life at risk...
when you may end up near another life in you.
i say-so too scary.
from experience.
you may want to read my questions...
If it does break and youère panicky you could be pregnant,
go to plan parenthood and gain the morning after pill.
There is no parent consent, it is completley anonymous.
But you have to take it the subsequent day.
No it is not a good impression. You can get pregnant anytime you have sex, no concern what you're using!
As far as your plan for a condom break, have you considered that a broken condom can leave you next to an STD?
Your an idiot. there you go, no speech just cold hard facts. Play a computer activity like a normal 14 year prehistoric, you are clearly not mature enough and have sex at 14 doesn't make you mature it a short time ago makes you an IDIOT! You still have to be 18 or elder to get the emergency contraception over the counter as long as you are anywhere in the US.
WOW im 15 & im not thinkin bout havin sex cuz i know that nuttin if truth be told protects u & there's a possiblity of me getting pregos planned parenthood may help u next to free pills & condoms. If ur going to do it regardless might as well do it the responsible way... Hope this help - as most of us oldies know - it's best to wait .. But who am I - much luck 2 u!
That lucky bastard! sorry honey, but no it's not a good concept.
What a world!! I personally think that trusting condoms is a impossible idea. It seems a life-size percentage of people don't know how to use them properly which often results contained by pregnancy. Before following through on this, I would find out about how to obtain Emergency Contraception within your area and get it earlier you have sex. This way you will know how to find it and will not waste precious time getting it a day to a week subsequent. The sooner you use it, the more effective it is. I would suggest taking it as soon as possible after you have sex. It is a really fruitless idea to use this form of birth control on a regular basis because of the hormone level, but one time will not do anything to you. I would also suggest using a condom along with the pill because even the morning after pill isn't 100% effective. After you've have your fun, I would suggest learning about instruction manual sex. As a matter of fact, booklet sex is a good alternative to sex when birth control is a problem. By manual sex, I scrounging manually stimulating each other instead of regular sex. You just own to be careful to keep the semen away from your vagina. Masturbation is another pious option. Remember, whatever you do, hold yourself protected from STD's and pregnancy. Before doing something stupid, research the risks and be fully prepaired to deal with them.
http://www.abortionsmedicalservices.com/ Thats a moral idea
Condoms dont break very regularly though :) so you'll be fine :)
yeah, go with the condom and own good clean ( I imply dirty) fun.
Besos
~Erica
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