I HAVE PROBLEMS WITH MY MUM she is too protective i am 16 year antiquated girl the solely child?
Answers: Providing you hold somewhere to go, at 16 you can voluntarily leave home.
AT 16 YOU CAN LEGALLY LEAVE HOME..VOLUNTARILY.
Find the proof on the lattice and give your parents something to think roughly. I think they'll back bad a bit if they know you can walk out the door. If you go to CONNEXIONS you'll catch to learn even more of your rights.
she shouldn't hit you or yell at you but my 16 year antediluvian child had better ask for permission to jump anywhere after school, well, truly, I highly doubt I would let my 16 year frail drive to school in the first place!
Try to collaborate to your mom, calmly! Find out the rules and stick by them. emotions can escalate so try to stay in control even when she doesn't. Sometimes one person has to be the harmony one.
good luck
I have no notion. I have a cellphone and if I'm late, I name or they call me. If I don't come on time I own told I would come, they are worried but don't pull my hair or anything, it's isn't respectful. We enjoy respect in our house. She had no business pulling your mane. She was probably worried about what might enjoy happened to you. If you are going to be late, you stipulation to call her.
judging from your question your mum sounds horrible
also your not fat
i would consider fat as over size 18
It seem she is trying to fulfil what she wanted to do when she was 16 through you. She simply wants the best for you but she has to permit you make your own mistakes. I do understand your problem but you should read between the lines your mum's problems. You are probably driving her mad with verbs especially when you aren't home when you should be. She doesn't think you are just sagging about with your friends or doing something non-hazardous. In her mind you are lying in the road after a car have hit you, you're in hospital because you have be attacked, or even worse someone has raped and killed you! It is a certainty of life that mothers are worriers and the more they love you the more they worry around you. Try to see things from her point of view and probably sit down quietly one evening and tell her (without losing your resentment or shouting) your point of view and how you feel. This approach, maybe you can have the smiling home you both want. And remember - lots of cuddles and hugs!
An hour and half late from institution - she must have been out of her mind beside worry - after all the stories within the news recently roughly girls of your age being stabbed and raped!
Sure she was over the top showing you up contained by front of your friends & throwing the shampoo at you but you must see it from her point of view as well.
If you prove you are grow and let her know where you are going and what time you will be within - I am sure she will give you some slack - and you also have to maintain on top of the school work too - maintain a revision timetable to show her when you are working and when you are relaxing.That's what maturity is all in the region of - doing the things you find a drag without moaning - it's the only instrument to get your Mum's respect and trust.
Go back to square one - apologise for coming home overdue and worrying her - tell her you realise that she must have be worried sick - it takes a lot of guts to own up you were wrong but she will appreciate it - and hopefully she will apologise back - perfect luck .
I completely agree that it's not right to hit you. Technically you are a child though (not as you keep saying that 16 make you not a child). You are legally a child until you are 18. Either way nearby are laws particularly child protection law, that are in place to stop violence towards others, although nearby are laws to protect everyone not just children.
Your mum should not be treating you close to this, although it is clear she has your interests at heart, even though she expresses them somewhat irratically. I can see why she wants you to revise though as your spelling be attrocious. You need to sit down and have a chat next to her, in order to break the rime. Get to know eachother and build up your relationship with her, she is your mum and there's nothing wrong beside spending time with her. Set aside time from your social life and your studies to do this. Every little help : )
Sorry for the spelling dig, but I am on your side (in agreeing you shouldn't be hit). Not on your side in agreeing you're an developed because you're not, and I really do think you're mum in her own opening is trying to get you through your life on the easiest pedestrian area she can dig out, before you tramp down it. But even with that, you seem to stray from these path she is so carefully trying to lay which is angering her and causing her to lash out inappropriately.
She be probably worried sick about you and although she got angry and frustrated I'm sure she really does comfort and she will regret her actions.
It is difficult to let your children enjoy freedom and allow them to grow up and gain independence, especially as you are an only child. You hold to appreciate that she is coming to terms with you becoming an fully developed and that this is a change for both of you.
When she has calmed down report her you love her and you are sorry for not letting her know where you were, notify her you will always ring in the adjectives, tell her you don't like it when she pulls your curls and gets angry.
I'm sure she loves you very much, sometimes you have need of to be the adult for her, you will feel alike when your children grow up.
Ps, don't let her down, do revise, but have fun too.
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