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hello.. i am 19 and My son is 2 years old.. i am not with his dad anymore and his dad never wanted anything to do with him really till lately.. now his dad comes about everyother weekend and every time his dad comes to pick him up he crys and crys and says mommy i want to stay with u.. but i have to let his dad take him b/c he has rights through the court now.. i feel soo bad when he leaves most of the time i just have to walk away from the car b/c i just start crying..what should i do.. i hate to send him but i kinda want his dad in his life..
Please say nice things.. i dont need anymore **** than i already get..

Answers:
Ask his dad to start comming by the house during the week and spend time there. Unless dad's hurting him (which it doesn't seem like that's the case) evenutally he'll come around. Tell dad that his son needs to see him more than every other weekend. If dad comes into your son's enviornment, and your son sees you accepting him, your son will start to feel safe with him, and accept him. You're doing the right thing! And I can't imagine how hard it is for you. If you start having outings with dad and son, your son will come around. Good luck!

I think that your son is having a hard time because he doesn't really know this guy called daddy. Give him time and eventually he will get used to it. If he doesn't then there could be something going on there that you are not aware of.

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