16 yr infirm son still sends nude photo of self even after warning, punishment, computer removal, etc..very soon what?
I just don't know what to do anymore...
Answers: powerfully first of all he should not get the computer posterior because he has proven that as soon as he gets it support he will do it again. I would get him into counseling as well. I know you said you tried that but conceivably a different counselor that specializes in this type of thing and to be precise a man not a woman.
good luck.
I'd go down to the police station and ask them to own a word with your son. They might be able to shed some desk light on just how serious and dangerous it is for him to be sending nude photos of himself to others. this is probably a sign of any narcisstic personalitydisorder or postnantel deppression. he wants the attention because he is depressed he and his father do not speak. ( i would suggest a blodd test )
if he doesnt own a computer than its through the phone?
just call the cell phone company and block texting. How is he sending things next to computer removal? A cell phone? Well take that away too. Don't take it away for a week, steal it away until he earns it back. Take everything away until he earn it back. He obviously can not be trusted alone on the computer, so do not allow him to be alone beside the computer... ever. Do not allow him to have a cell phone with a camera. Don't find over-involved with him in conversation. Just lug the things away and tell him that he can get them pay for when he earns his trust back. Firmly speak about him that he has disobeyed you for the last time.
He can bring back in big trouble for doing that. Especially if he turns 18 and is still doing it, but the girls he sends it to are underage. Or if that person's parent go through their kids email and finds these types of picture- consequently YOU will be in trouble.
Quite often that's it! be his father , there has to be some likeness in attendance, but one thing is different..his dad didn't have you nearby when he was growing up...right? so you see your son already has an supremacy on dad ,(though he cannot see that yet).
I have a suggestion, invite a lot of adults, some work populace he does not know so well, some family and afterwards drop the whammy of what he did, if you want to take some of the adults into your confidence (beforehand without him knowing) after let everyone make a big matter about how stupid it is , while another sais they are going to tell their mum and imperial ma to have a look , or let everyone know at their husbands / boyfriends work, you know what I'm adage? hhahha ... it might work, then again i don't know him personally, but purely a suggestion. Whatever, good luck You said your son is 16, so that answers the question as to why he freely defies you. You also know that he is trying to get attention, and it is working relatively well.
Is he sending the pictures to both males and females, he may be wrestling with the notion of being bi.
He may also be struggling with a poor body photograph which makes him feel that he wants to validate himself.
The fact that he keep getting caught by you makes me think that he desires you to catch him and to see the photos.
He may want to be a nudist, as well.
If you are not piqued by the sight of your son nude, then you may put in the picture him that you will allow him to be nude around the house, if he promises to stop sending the pictures to others,
If that breaks the cycle, then see about finding a foreign counsellor for him, and a group session may be helpful.
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