My mother believes me having a child is her business.?
We are trying for our first baby and hopefully the baby will be born when I am 24/25 and he is 26/27.
We own a home, have plenty of money, careers, etc. and are very happy and stable.
I mentioned to my mother a few months ago that we wanted a baby soon.
She started a fight with me telling me I should wait until I am 30 and how she doesn’t have the time to be a grandma since my two little brothers still live at home. (They are 9 and 13).
I told her that it was our choice and not hers.
She told me it was HER business since I am her child and any children I have will be her grandchildren.
She feels she has a say in the matter because she shat me out!
She hasn’t supported me since I turned 18 and we are not going to rely on her for any help once we have a child.
Do you think its crazy that she thinks us having a baby is her business?
Answers:
It's your choice not hers.
I would have thought she would just be happy at the prospect of a grandchild.
Wow, your mom sounds like a pretty selfish person. Also conceited thinking that you will need to rely on her. GO and GET PREGO GIRL!!! Good luck ;)
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