what should i do to be the perfect mom?

two girls 1 and 3

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First and foremost forget about being the perfect mom. she don't exist. perfect is not good for you, not good for your girls and not good for your family. Be a good and loving mom and that is far more important than being perfect. Always choose hugging a child over washing a dish, clothes gotten dirty while the three of you play is a good thing and a messy room never killed anyone but it sure sees a lot of loving fun. Enjoy your children They are at the age that is as good as it gets, trust me you will need this time to get you through the teen years and if you waste it trying to be perfect, you all will loose so very much.

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hug ur kids, tell them u love them.

love them and the rest will come naturally. Just the fact you asked this question says your on the right path Good Luck! I have a boy 3 and a girl 7 1/2 months! I don't believe that anyone will ever be truly perfect. But hey, if you figure it out let me know, will ya?

read to them daily....it shows you care about them now to spend the time with them......it shows you care about their future education......this is just a start

THere is no such thing as a "perfect mom". Just love your kids the best way you know how!!

That's easy. Stop trying to be the perfect mom. It's impossible. Instead, try to be a GOOD mom. Just love your kids with all your heart and let them know it.

the fact that you want to be a perfect mum itself is enough. Always remember that the children are born through us but they do not belong to us.

Love your kids with no expectaions.

Caring for them will show them you love them.

Disciplining them will show them to respect you.

I think the biggest thing is to show them you care but not spoiling them all the time because they wont respect you. Talk to them.
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Im a daughter(teen)

I actually don't believe that any mom can be perfect but, I know that anyone can be a good mom when the truly listen to their children. I have 2 (older now) step kids and 3 of my own. They all say that I have and I am a good mom due to listening without judging, teaching them morals, and to NEVER lie. Your girls are still young but, to show them love and attention is about all they need to know that they are loved.
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Also, be a mom and a friend. Gain their trust and let them know that they can share anything with you. This includes the good and bad aspects with growing up. Always tell your kids how much you love them. Spend time with them, read to them, do arts and crafts, take walks and be active.

There is no such thing as the perfect mom, but you can try to be the best you can be. Educate yourself first. I personally like to read articles or magazines on parenting--they help a lot sometimes.

By making sure you encourage good eating habits, always help them in their learning. (spoiling them is ok as long as its once in a while, and you still teach them to be polite. You will make mistakes, but that is ok--that's life.

The most important thing is to just LOVE them!
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you can visit
www.babyzone.com
they have lots of interesting articles.

There is no such thing as a perfect mom. But in your childrens eyes if you make sure to show them and tell them that you love them as often as possible and make sure to spend time and stay close to your children, then they will believe that you are the perfect mom. Good Luck! You will never be a perfect mom, how boring that would be for your children! LOVE, love them without hesitation.... let them see you have feelings, spend quaility time with them, do the fun stuff...like makeing mud pies! They came wash and dry and so did their clothes so need to worry about that part. Give them your time, and when they grow up they will give it back to you!!! Keep them busy and learning all the time, they don't have to know they are learning...even at their young ages they can learn from your actions, let them copy you!Just love them and for pete's sake don't spoil them so rotten they grow up to be rotten! Begin now to teach them skills, like pick up their toys, earn a penny.{don't exspect them to clean the whole room } just start small. Do the best you can and you'll be a great Mom!!!

First of all there is no perfect mom. Love your children with all your heart, teach them, spend time with them,
encourage them, and always support them, and be there when you are need. That is how to be a perfect mom to them. There is no perfect mom.

There is no such thing.
Love,acceptance, patience and a great sense of humor will surely help.

Just like the perfect man....doesnt exist

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