...necessitate assist. please im beggin u for advocate.?
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ok. im about to turn 14. to k. an we wasnt planin on it thta day we did. and hes not a perve cuz ive particular him my whole life announcement weve een good friends for like 2 years. i met him thro his brothers. so yea. we didnt merely go out to date someoen we actully do have a realtionship so yea
Answers: I would insist on you to talk to your foster mother. However since I am a foster parent I can tell you what may take place. In the state of Minnesota (where I do my foster care) If a foster child has a child I then become the foster parent of that child as resourcefully or I can decide to no longer take surrounded by the foster child and send them to another family (which I would NEVER do). At that point the foster parent, foster child and the father of the child would enjoy to speak to the foster child's case worker. If the child is under the age of 16 and the father is 18 or elder the state would press stagatory rape charges on the father of the child. This would put you, him and the foster family in a crunch. I would strongly suggest taking a pregnancy tryout which you can buy at the store (about $10.00) if you are not pregnant great if you are tell your foster parent immediatly then ask her what she would resembling you to do and why she woud like you to do them. Follow her advice if she loves you close to her own child which she should she will understand. I am personally against abortions for pregnancies that could of be prevented and since you were not raped I would inform you to have the child and freshly would not allow the father to interact with the social worker. (I would inform the social worker you are not sure who the father is.) Then when you turn 18 hopefully no more pregnancies and you and the father are still on good lingo for the sake of the child and let you live your life. So contained by a nutshell
1. Take a test
2. Tell foster parent
3. DO NOT give the father's information to bag worker
4. Wait until you are 18 and no longer in foster care to hold the father involved legally
5. Make sure the father is involved with the child emotionally and financially until you are 18
6. Continue to enjoy contact with your foster parent after you are 18 so your child knows his/her gramma/grampa since she will be the one responsible for seeing to it that you and the child are taken nurture until you turn 18.
First of all, calm down! You may not even be pregnant, right? Go to Planned Parenthood ASAP. They can furnish you a pregnancy test and help you want what to do... and they are completely confidential and usually don't charge you if you much, if anything. Check out their website then find one in your nouns.
In the mean time, don't drink, smoke or anything else that could harm the fetus, in recent times in case.
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/
ur to youthful to have a baby...
but follow ur heart near him...
ur in foster care so i know for a certainty that they wont let u go until u turn 18 no issue wat...unless u go to the court and fight ur mode through all the legal stuff
honey, im soo sorry. You inevitability to tell ur foster mom!! Please dont do an abortion!! But you should put it up for adoption!!
Wish you the best of luck!!
If you are pregnant, please get an abortion or grant it up for adoption. dont listen to the other girl. Maybe he or his family can take you surrounded by.
I'm so sorry to hear about your situation! PLEASE, DO NOT listen to the first post! Adoption is a great option but PLEASE do not do an abortion...I know a ancestral here where I live that have be dieing to adopt a baby for years and I know there are TONS of other family out there that are the same means of access, so your baby will go to a perfect home!
Unfortunatly whatever you do your boyfriend is going to get into trouble. You can't hold an abortion without parental consent, and you can't have this babe without anyone knowing. The state will step in and your boyfriend is going to be contained by some trouble!
Your a kid still and the best option for your child (if you are pregant) is that you put it up for adoption and someone that is elder and more stable will be able to provide a good home for the tot! You can do open adoptions where on earth you get to pick the people that will be adopt and in some cases they let you signature the baby and let you enjoy updates on the baby and contact with the toddler! If you just want to put it up for adoption and try to go on near your life and let surrounded by be in the past (which I regard as would be hard and nearly impossible) then closed adoption is the style to go.
what ever you decide, you NEED to dance talk to your foster mom or your caseworker!
Good Luck!
sweetie your only fourteen, your merely a baby yourself. not that i am encourageing you to get an abortion but how will you precision for another person? please dont take it wrong but to answer your cross-question...if indeed you are pregnant and in foster care the state is your "parent" and they will thieve legal action against your boyfriend even if you consented to enjoy sex for teh simple fact that you are a minor and they will probably move you to another home. if i were you i would hold your foster parent take you to a doctor and then clutch it from there. ultimately the choice IS yours. just remember that if you are indeed pregnant your time is not just about you anymore.
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