My daughter became friends with a chubby girl but I am worried it will hurt her socially. How do I get her to?

..stay away?

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Well, in my opinion (which EVERYONE wants, by the way) I have always noticed the fact that every pretty, thin, girl has a chubby sidekick.
This girl is known as the 'take one for the team girl'.
Example: your daughter and Chubberz are out on the town. Hottie guy wants to dance with your girl, his friend 'takes one for the team' by dancing with the Chubster, so your daughter won't feel 'guilt' by leaving her 'friend' behind.
Get it?
Chubbies provide a social service. In fact, some 'better' colleges even have a sorority of Chubbies to act as escorts for the more popular girls, making sure they don't end up on a Girls Gone Wild video.
Be thankful!

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why the hell would it ruin her social life?

it won't. YOU stay away from the chubby girl. (unless the chubby girl smokes marijuana)

leave them alone. they're kids. besides, what makes you think your daughter is the cats *** anyway??!!! you are an evil person to keep friends apart.. if anyone gives you hint, they should be ashamed of themselves.
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I hope you're joking.

Could you be any more shallow and cruel? Shame on you. Your little girl has better sense and is kinder than you are. Leave it alone.

You don't. I'm thin always have been and my best friend of 35 years has always been chubby. You need to back off is what you need to do. If your daughter wants to be friends with a chubby girl let her. Your teaching your daughter to be judge mental and mean.

that is kind of mean, i mean it doesnt really matter about size or weight or height, what matters is what is inside of you, your personality, etc. as long as your daughter is having a grand time with her friend it will be all right.

I think being friends with a chubby girl will hurt her socially less than having a narrow-minded parent.

that is so terriable . what is wrong with you? There is nothing AT all wrong with that girl.your daughter is lucky to not be a shallow as you. Leave the girl alone she's developing good morals. To be friends with people for who they are.
you really need to get off your high horse.

p.s. i'm not saying this because i'm chubby because i'm not i just have a heart ya know?

HELLO......... what century are you living in???? What country???? There are all kinds of people that make up the world. What kind of cynical, prejudiced message are you sending your child if you don't want her to be friends with someone based not on their character, but their weight??? GEEEZ... glad you're not my Mom. Man thats pretty bad when you set those kind of examples for your child..

Dont worry being chubby isnt contagious, You never know, the chubby girl could be more popular then your daughter...

how cruel of you Shame on you....

Tell her the fat girl is gay

encouraging her to stay away from someone because of a physical characteristic will only teach your daughter how to be a shallow snob. You should encourage her behavior...she is basing her friendship on the type of person her friend is, not what she looks like. Maybe you could learn something from her?

It sounds like your daughter needs to stay away from you. Unlike you, your daughter does not see looks, good for her, it would appear someone raised her right.

You're a loser and you should be ashamed of yourself. You know you could learn a lot from her, like how to be a compassionate human being.

Maybe you're the one who needs to stay away. You are being stereotypical and cruel. "Chubby" people have feelings too! And "chubby" people can be nicer than "skinny" people. Instead of worrying about what your daughters friends look like, you should be worrying more about how they act and treat her. You don't sound like you are ready to be a mother to me. you are the one who is anti-socal. the fact that your kid can make a freind like that is some thing to be prazed. i am home schooled and a lot of people think that home schooled kids have no socal skills, that is not true at all. in fact my brothers and i make freinds a lot faster that a lot of the public school kids. and we make freinds with any body. that kind of skill is some thing to be encouraged. not sqashed out. dont make her stay away, that would make her snobsh like you.
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by the way i spell a lot better when i am not typing very fast. you are still a snob.

you are so rude

Honestly being chubby is not the social no no it used to be. I think that as a parent we should be more concerned with teaching our children tolerance than discrimination against others. I agree that you should be ashamed of yourself for trying to keep a child away from your daughter just for what she looks like. You should only want to keep another child away from yours if that child does things that are dangerous or just plain bad such as shoplifting.

Maybe your daughter can buy her some pretty new fat girl designer clothes and give her beauty tips and weight loss advise. That's extremely shallow. Take a look in the mirror. I bet you're not perfect.

By all means kill the fat girl and elevate your child to success by the death of others....you putz.

What the hell is your problem?

ppqna.com has to take a breather cause someone in thier department farted....

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