10 yr older daughter`s friend is son of my best friend Advice please?

We`ve been hanging around nearly 4 yrs now.My daughter is ADHD, who`s got a pretty worthy good handle on it.She is getting lots of self-esteen & is making abundantly of new friends. Her friend is getting more bossy & jealous of her. It`s usally her friends that come to his birthday shindig.He`s 10 , very sensitive & cries a lot. Right presently, my daughter has found a "new" friend, she is crazy over (boy).I`ve always driven her to be friend with her old friend, but he is eighter tesing her give or take a few her new friend (says She`s got a crush) or getting his state of mind hurt-He has had discouraging experinces with father 5yrs ago (he`s gone)Her new friend is really sweet, but wonders WHy, she let 2 of them ditch on her all the time. (She also has some dutiful freinds ) he likes. The sticky thing is I am friends next to the fussy one Mom (close) they usally have fun on our outing.I doubt I`ll get any feedback, I know this is long & firm to understand-Thanks to all that try.

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Answers:    children today are more complex, its the way of the world. children next to special conditions are obviously going to need more suport, and possibly find growing up that bit harder. The young years will come soon, best to try and get confusion/frustration understood as best you and daughter can very soon, best to build on yr friendship/bond with your daughter, so that she will listen to you and have respect for your opinion. Support her developing self esteem, promote it, try to fade out all that diminishes this, as soon enough your girl will enjoy to stand on her own 2 feet and face adjectives that life throws at her, so dont be unrealistic, chat about relationships and crushes, chat more or less what is acceptable and appropriate for her to receive as a return form her pals, agree to her k now that there have to be a line to draw, and that she can be guided by that all her duration, when she feels uncomfortable, its time to cross-question things.implement changes. Bossy is not good, crush or not, resentment is quite natural, and can create adjectives sorts of negatives. Talk to your friend who has the boy to be exact friendly with your daughter, be honest, approach things together, IF YOU END UP LOSING A FRIEND OVER THIS, THEN SHE WASNT OF ANY GREAT VALUE, FRIENDS ARE IMPORTANT TO US ALL, BUT THEY WILL COME AND GO, TELL YOUR DAUGHTER THAT, MOTHERS AND DAUGHTERS ARE FOREVER.

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Kid's will be Kid's,
These things have a mode of working themselves out.
And at the age's you are talking about, It can be knotty to control.
And if she is a 'true friend' then she must understand, The kids will do what they surmise best for themselves.

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Follow your heart or you mind,
Choose one!

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