I have two nieces and a nephew that are uncontrollalbe what should be done?

My brother and his wife are not fit to have any kids, but they have 3. Ages 4, 7. and 10. because of the way these kids have been raised they are uncontrollable. They do not liston and they don't get along with other kids. When they come to my house they trash my daughters stuff if you ask them why they say they don't have it...I wish I could do some thing to help them. I am afraid that they will end up in prison some day....I couldn't take them away because it would not be fare to my child and it would be to over welming. Does any one know of some thing that can be done to help them?

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punish them and send them to military camp if they are that bad.
It depends on how far you want to go. Have you talked to your brother? If you really feel that the parents are unfit, then you should call social services. But be prepared that this will cause quite a bit of animosity between you and your brother. The other thing would be not to invite them over. Explain that their children are ruining your daughter's things, and you can't have that. Tell them that once they teach their children to respect other people's property, you will be glad to have them over.

Good luck.
Talk to your brother and/or wife about how their kids misbehave. If that will cause too much bad feelings try talking to your mom about it and maybe she can talk to your brother. Tell them their kids can't come over to your house if they don't get them to behave.
I would have a talk with your brother and wife. Tell them how you feel. It is really there problem. I know you want to help,I am not sure how far you should go.Of course if the kids are abused then you need to take action. If not your brother and sister in law.will just have to figure things out. You also don't have to have her children over to your house,until they can behave. GOOD LUCK!!
First,ask yourself:are the children unfit or are the parents unfit?To me it seems that both should do their part.The parents need to act like parents,if not call D.F.A.C.S.let me remind you the children might not be happy with the whole taking them away decision.I was just recently(2 months ago)put into defacs care,trustme it is no day at the park.But hey,you have to choose what's best for the children in the long run,yes even if it hurts their feelings.

Now,if it's the kids,beat their behind!I'm not saying abuse them though.If you've already tried,then you have to teach them lessons"the hard way". Like......If,lets say they break your daughter's doll,well make them do chores for 10 cents each chore a day until they get the lets say 12.00 dollars to pay for it.Yeah it's hard work,but sit them down and explain to them that for every action there is a opposite and equal reacction.Teach them little life lessons,I bet they won't break another thing.
oh yeah,remember that defacs can really effect alot of stuff,you decide if it's good or bad.
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