Do you judge my biological mother is thinking of me on my birthday?
Answers: Most mother who have put their child up for adoption just want to grant that child a life that they were afraid they couldnt donate their child. I think your mother probably did just that and I deduce she misses you terribly. I am positive that she thinks more or less you every day wondering how your doing, what you look like, who you grew up to be. I'm sure she think about you daily...not a moment ago on your birthday. If you have not tried to find her you should. Hope I've helped! Happy Birthday!
I'm sure that she does. I enjoy a friend who gave her baby up for adoption several years ago because she be young and felt that her child deserved a better life than the one she could provide.
She thinks roughly her little boy a lot especially on his birthday and around the holidays. She does regret her decision but she is also glad that her kid went to a loving home with two parents who be better able to provide for him. Try to remember that your mother gave you away because she required you to have a better life, not because she didn't want you.
Hope you own a wonderful birthday tomorrow.
Happy Birthday from a fella who will turn 37 in about two weeks! There is probably in my mind that your biological mother has spent more days than freshly your birthday thinking about you for the last 36 years. She have probably wondered innumerable times whatever became of you and hoped dearly for your sanctuary and upbringing.
If it plagues your thoughts, perhaps you should consider finding her, just to introduce yourself. Keep a positive outlook contained by the consideration of asking why she had to give you up, most do it because they know you will hold a better life than being raise in the conditions in which you be conceived.
yes i do. As a mother myself, i have also considered putting up my baby for adoption at times. Not b/c i d ont love her but b/c i dont presume at times that i can give her everything she needs and sometimes ithink here are couples who could make the child much more happier. I truly believe in my heart your mother think about you all the time not a short time ago on your birthday. She was attached to you from the time she conceived. She could of opted for abortion but she loved you too much to do this. so instead she sacrifice and gave you up for adoption so you can have a better life span . Im sure of it. I think your mother will always love you and i surmise deep in her heart she probably to this daytime feels she did the right thing. I furnish your biological mother alot of credit for being so brave and putting you up for adoption. Its the hardest thing a mother can do. I would bet that she does deduce of you on your birthday and Christmas and other times.
Watch the British movie, "Secrets and Lies".
It is a beautiful story of a mother and daughter reunited.
I watch it every time it's on cable.
Have you tried to find your mother?
It's possible that she is thinking of you, but feel too guilty to contact you.
You might be surprised how much healing can occur, even if a reunion doesn't work out the agency you want.
I healed a lot of stuff near my mother, even after she died.
Good Luck!
Happy Birthday! I Know she thinks of you everytime she opens her eyes. I am a mother that be young and dumb and wish I could of done different but you can't run back.My son has allot of anger towards me. because I give him up to my mom and dad. I was tricked but that did not matter. it did allot of injure letting my mom adopt him. But I know that she does think of you! And wonders all the time nearly you! and loved you enough to let a well-mannered mom and dad raise you. I'm also adopted at birth, and I ask myself impossible to tell apart question every year. I guess it depends on the situation she's in, and be in when she gave birth to you. She probably does; I'd sure as hell chew over of my kid on their birthday, no matter where they be.
Adoption should be against the law; and then we'd never own to wonder...
HAPPY BIRTHDAY! I am certain that she thinks of you EVERYDAY and not lately the day you were born. Maybe for a while more that day...but I would like to believe that she think of you everyday!
Addition: Avagail - I am glad that adoption is not against the law...cause if it be my adopted (soon to be) son would be living in foster perfectionism his entire life and would be wondering how come he doesn't have a family circle - biological or adopted!
There is not one day that I don't presume about my son - how he's doing, how much he's growing, etc and I simply can't imagine that varying no matter how much time goes by, though I hope it will not come to that.
I can almost guarentee you, as others own said, that she thinks about you far more than a moment ago that one day, if not every sunshine.
Happy Birthday fellow adoptee!-different year and date though.
It is quite a thought every year isn't it??!!One thing I do is hope I made her proud every year..I also wonder how we would express joy birthdays.!!
I have talked too several people over the years and they all told me they do remember, so I enjoy to go by that.
Imagine if she happened to log on to your YQA- THAT WOULD BE SOMETHING!!
My mom give up a little girl when she was contained by high school and while she is still into drugs and drinking, my brother and me hold turned our lives out wonderfully. I wonder sometimes if she came back to run into my mom and realized my mom is crappy... that she wouldnt care to see if she have a sister. I think about her even tho she know knowing about me. So I hope your biological mother thinks in the region of you more then just your birthday! yes - she is.
I have to give my son back to my ex husband by court instruct. The court system favored fathers over mothers. even though i had an excellent mission, housing, a male figure while loved and be involved in my son's life more so than my exhusband be ever involve..anways i last saw my son on 19 may 08. I have not be able to contact him because my ex will not let me settle with him. My son turns 4 on 11 August. I think just about him every day and there is not a second that go by that I do not wish him in my arms. that be the first time we had been seperated ( minus the mundane day job sitter) since conception.
Honey. A mother NEVER EVER EVER forgets her CHILD.
Hi! Happy Birthday!
This press makes me cry every time it comes up on this board. This is something no one should ever hold to wonder.
I am a First Mother and have several First Mother/Father friends. NONE of us have forgotten our children. Most of us devise of our children DAILY. Please see this question and its answers, I think they might relaxation your mind a little bit.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
I wish I could notify you for sure whether your mother remembers you on your birthday, but my guess is she remembers you often. She carried you in her body and our bodies remind us. She thought adequate of you to want to give you something better and minds remember. She loved you in her heart past you were born and hearts brand it impossible to forget.
Unless your mother has lost her body, her mind and/or her heart - I'd be willing to bet that she think of you not just on your birthday and YOU are the biggest loss she has ever endure.
For me, birthdays are the hardest. I light a candle each birthday and permit it burn all the way down. I breed a wish as I blow it out that someday we can celebrate together. My ancestral do as well. We have a sort of "year of mourning" on birthdays and talk about it commonly. Sometimes it hurts so much I can't get out of bed. I keep photos around my house and surrounded by my wallet - so does my family and my ex. We have NEVER forgotten, and won't allow ourselves to.
I hope that you enjoy a Happy Birthday and that some of the answers here give you comfort. I hope that you will be able to hear the words Happy Birthday from your First Mother's own orifice and she can tell you herself that she never forgot.
I cannot imagine how she couldn't cogitate about you. This is your and her special day. Giving you up be probably one of the hardest things she has ever had to do and she will forever focus about you. Not only on your birthday, but every daytime. She loves you and you are always going to be part of her. I am 30 and I found my bio mom 2 years ago. She said she have thought about me every year on my b-day. I didn't ask her about it, she lately volunteered the info when she called my this last b-day. I am SURE your mom think of you all the time, not just on your b-day!
economically all i can say is as a relinquishing mother in that is not a single day that goes by that i don't suggest of my daughter and on her birthday she seems even more to the fore of my mind and i wish that i could explain to her this Of course she does! You are her child! I think you should look her up and find her. Tell her everything she missed. Finding her is the best option for you right presently. If you don't, you will question on it forever.
I think of my daughter every holiday and on the hit and miss days too.
I always take bad work for her birthday. I can't handle it. All I do is cry on September 9th.
She does think of ya. Trust me on this.
You know she does. You can't be batty at her.You never know what happen. And it does make a diffrence. One daylight you will meet her again. If it is just within heaven. Happy birthday. I gave a child up for adoption and I do suppose of him on his birthday along with many other days during the year. I would bet your birth mom think of you also.
YES!
If you want to search or just to yak to fellow adoptees, you should check out www.adultadoptees.org. Happy Birthday:)
Of course she does. She thinks of you everyday as well. Are you a mom? If you are, you know a mother's love NEVER fade, not even after 36 years! Happy Birth day and your mom for sure must be thinking about you and regreting nearly giving you away and wondering how you would look
I'm certain she thinks of you on this sunshine every year as well. She will remember you on this day every year (and imagined many days in between)! Happy Birthday. She probably does ponder of you. Mother's don't forget their children.
Happy Birthday!
Of course she thinks of you. You are her biological daughter! Happy Birthday! and she probobally does think of you.
Happy Birthday, we share like peas in a pod birthday!
I am sure she does.
Enjoy your birthday.
Absolutely yes. i guarantee you she does...
yes, of course
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